6 Signs that You Are Getting Married to a Loser

article-2014139320134321000Every girl dreams of finding a ‘Mr. Perfect’, and being treated with respect and love. Although no one can be completely ‘perfect’, some men can genuinely care for and make their woman feel special, while some are there just to take you for a ride. As time passes by, you might realise that it was in fact a mistake marrying him! Before it is too late, check out these pointers before you decide to tie the knot.

1. He cannot control his anger
If your guy constantly loses his cool over petty issues and misbehaves, even when you are with friends, it just shows how ill-mannered and insensitive he is. Punching walls, breaking things, stamping feet, etc., are warning signs that shout out- “I am a loser.” Uncontrolled temper can even lead to serious issues like physical abuse.

2. He tries to keep you away from your family or friends
Getting married does not mean breaking relations with other people you love. If your would-be husband always talks ill of your family and friends, finds faults with whatever they do, and hates to interact and spend time with them, it is time you think twice before tying the knot. He might even ask you to choose between him and your family later!

3. He always blames you for everything
A major sign that screams out he is a complete loser is that he always blames you for everything that goes wrong. Such a man either thinks that he is perfect, or is not man enough to own up to his mistakes. Run as far as you can from such a guy if you wish to save yourself from any frustration in the future.

4. He embarrasses you in public
Creating a scene in public, yelling at you, abusing people who annoy him on the streets, using foul language in front of your family or friends mean that he feels no respect for you. It also shows that he does not care what you think about him. Be warned that this behaviour will only get worse over time.

5. He shows no respect for strangers
You go for dinner and the waiter accidently spills some water on you, or if the taxi driver is going too slow, and your guy starts yelling and abusing. Our advice- run for your life. This man clearly has no respect for others. Remember, only if a person is sensitive and respectful towards others can he be respectful towards you. These acts just show his nature in general.

6. He constantly tries to pull you down
Some men find it difficult to accept that their fiancée or wife is better at something than they are. Instead of feeling proud for your achievements, your man might get jealous and throw tantrums. Remember that such men can be very dominating and can literally rule your choices.

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