(Advice Needed): My Boss Suspended Me From Work Because I Rejected Her Advances

Dear Tee,

I am in my mid-thirties and I work in a private organisation owned by a boss lady. She is all elegant and nice, and we have been working together for the past 2 years now with no major issue.

Trouble started last month when boss invited me over to her house and start making funny advances at me, I was surprised. I resisted her and went home. She invited me to a bar two weeks ago, she got drunk and asked me to drive her home, I did and she started undressing and dragged me to her bed. I didn’t want to have any intimacy with her, so I fled again. The following morning, I got to work 5 minutes late, only for her to issue me a suspension letter for a month. I am confused, what do I do?

4 COMMENTS

  1. Joseph was able to secure a future for not only for himself but for his entire generation by not giving in to d advances of Potiphar’s wife… 5minute pleasure can snatch off ur destiny n dat of ur entire generation if u compromise. Thank God for givn u d enabling spirit to resist her on two dfrnt occasions… My brother suspend urself for life from d job. God has a better n bigger plans for u… resist d devil

  2. oga u go late…late na late…she love u fine we agree…this one na her source of livelihoodbuild…think of it…u don’t have the nicest body in the world…or a D in Guinness book of records..she is ur boss…with her money she can get someone else…some guys wil do it for egg roll and zobo some will do her for free…some will rape her…in other word u intentionally went late so she will look pass u cause od love…mr man u love her too…u just want her to want u more