I’m a 20-year old undergraduate and only just started having sex with my boyfriend, who’s in the same University with me. The first time we did it, I cried the entire time and asked him if he was going to marry me because I couldn’t live with myself if he didn’t. And he promised he would.
However, after having sex a couple of more times, he started asking for anal sex. He said it was a better way for him to enjoy sex. I love him a lot but I don’t like the idea. I don’t know if I should tell him how I feel about it but I have a feeling he wouldn’t like it and may affect how he feels for me.