Advice Column: My fiance beats me like I’m a man like him

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My fiance and I have been living together for 2 years now and we plan to get married in August this year,however, something happened yesterday evening. I got back late from work due working extra hours and he was busy pestering me about why I came late – maybe I went to see one of my boyfriends, blah blah blah. I just ignored him because I was too tired for silly fights but no, it seems the devil had other plans. I took my bath, ate some food and went to lie down. He came to the bed, hitting me rigorously on my head like I should move to the other side of the bed that he wants to sleep on that same spot. I acted dumb but when I couldn’t take it anymore I got off the bed and hit him back, like leave me the hell alone. Before I could say Jack, this guy just charged at me beating me blue black and red.

This isn’t the first time, he has done it severally even in front of his friends before. I moved out yesterday but i’m considering ending the relationship because I can’t marry a man that uses me as a punching bag.

Really confused here, please advice me.

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