At some point in every woman’s life, she will get heartbroken, get cheated on or discover that her partner had been lying to her all along. We know that your first reaction, most times is to wreck as much havoc as possible but will do absolutely nothing to help your healing process.
Just before you take that decision, you should know these things not to do when you catch your partner cheating.
1. Make a public scene
Causing a public scene either by fighting or screaming or something else will be embarrassing for you and you do not need that, no matter how fragile you are.
Not because the cheating person deserves any pity or cover up but we advise this because it is something you’d forever regret when you are calm enough to think things through.
It is better to walk away from that scene of discovery and plot your next move without drawing the attention of a crowd. You can still retaliate but why not do this in a classy way.
2. Get violent
Being cheated on is not grounds for getting violent with your partner. Most women when they are angry will destroy stuff- scatter the house, break plates, destroy the man’s personal properties but this is not too good.
It is enough heartbreak that your partner did not turn out to be deserving of your trust and affection as you thought they were. Don’t lose your freedom because of them. Violence of any sort is never acceptable and resorting to that will leave you full of nothing but regret.
3. Reveal secrets
Yes, we know you are hurt and your emotions raw but please and please, do not be tempted to reveal secrets told you in love and trust. No matter the position you caught your partner, refrain from divulging secrets about them- you can never tell how this will bounce back to haunt you.
4. Leak N*des
You guys got naughty and did a couple of se3x videos or even took shots of yourself naked, then you catch him with the lady he claimed was his cousin- Yes, we know how it happens but it is still not enough reason to leak his nudes. Consider if the tables were turned, would you like it?