Gay Nigerian Man Complains About The Way His German Husband Treats Him

Chika a Nigerian gay man living in Germany married Marc Schwarz, a German man a few years ago, the marriage ended in 2010 but the couple are back together now.

In this interview with Stella Dimoko Korkus of Encomium magazine Chika talks about his Gay marriage and the price he has to pay.

Chika to Stella

I’m back with Marc but under lock and key. He locked my penis with a tiny iron rope that hold my waist and is not covered at the back but my front side is covered with aluminum and I can only pee and clean it.

How long have you had this?
Four months now

Is it not torture for you?
Well, it won’t last long because I am thinking of separating from him. And I will break the key and divorce him and this time it’s final, because I can’t continue to be a good wife

So why did he lock it?
No trust, that’s all

So why did you go back to him after last time you complained of too much sex which was causing you pain?
That’s because I feel for him and also he always comes to beg. I didn’t know it will be like this.

You’re complaining now but were you blind when your penis was being padlocked?
I did it out of love charm not knowing I am imprisoning myself. I am trying to break that key and once it’s done that means I am done with him. I am sick and tired of this suffering and smiling marriage because he cheats and still picks on me as if I am a kid and yet padlocked me. This is prison.

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63 Comments

  • IF YOU DON’T REPENT,U WILL DIE & GO 2 HELL FIRE. ALL THOSE WHO PRACTICE & SUPPORTS GAY MARRIAGE ALREADY HAV TICKETS 2 HELL FIRE & GR8 WIL B THEIR SUFFERING NO MATTER THEIR INFLUENCE IN D SOCIETY 4 MY GOD IS NOT A RESPECTER OF PERSONS.
    OH CHUKS WHAT A FOOL U ARE…!!!
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  • This boi…u r a big fool,if i set my eyes on u,i will chop off that useless thing u call dick or pennis n give it to a dog to eat,hopeless animal,u r cursed,we africans dont ball like dis,ewu.

  • u dey very stupid, dem neva dey lock dat ur stupid dick we u get. Naija man lyk u dey dia albino turn u to dog wey him dey fuck for asshole wey u dey cari shit, dat one no do una, him still chain ur prick lyk dog wey u be. U go soon die for nothing. I pity for ur mama and papa wey suffer born u. U be big fool.

  • Rubbish article tot it was sumtin dat wil mk sense.mtchew….wateva ur name is ur a fool,big tym.luk 4 beta tins 2 do wif ur life.love my ass!!

  • Ashawo, useless bitch and men like you are the type that when our good ladies give the slightest opportunity you want to beat them up and treat them like shit. Mumu, looking for a cheap way of earning foreign VISAship.
    Please dont come back to BEAUTIFUL 9JA ABEG. Just complete the rest of ur life their.

  • I hope you get to read this Chika !!..I feel for the mother who gave birth to you, I feel for you cos u re cursed, I feel for your tomorrow cos your today won’t let it come and I feel for your afterlife cos you ve ruined it..

  • Wat a shame on. U, fyn boy like u… I know u didn’t do it bcos of luv, but it was bcos of money. U better repent, bcos there is no any luv between man and man man except btween man and woman ..

  • u re useles u don’t even knw d purpose of u creation. u go bgn surfer 4rm dis world until hereafta n even in heaven u re going to hell. useles animal, shege dan bura uba. matsiyaci. tsinanne

  • You need to repent because you have put yourself in Hell Fire while you are on earth…..this is Hell boy. Is it because of money? See what poverty has lead you to. Boy Chika wake up.

  • Warning to all you ladies that lie down for guys from abroad, this is how you catch aids, you dont know what some guys have done in the past for the sake of money, povert, and desperation. God help us and our Ladies that fall for anything. Plz do not condem the guy but pray for that God will turn him around and repent to be born again at the moment the devil is working tirelessly in his life and he’s los

  • Well Chika,all I feel for you is pity….see what you’ve gotten into….I don’t actually believe this is love….look for a way to get yourself outta this shit and save your name….you are just disgracing this nation…..well I wish you goodluck….God bless.

  • Dear chika, i hope u get dis msg.
    Sorry but Ure a disgrace to ure aborigine AFRICA & NIGERIANS 2 in particular, U ar nt a Nigerian anymore&u will never b again.

  • U ar a big disgrace 2ur mother,ewu anurfia,onyanra goat.I hate u so much, na God go purnish u. Anytin wey mk u enta 9ja I go use u 4rituals cause u of no use 2us. Shame on u. Nd u still dey form love bigfool. Greed na go kill u. Okpo.

  • You’ll rot in penury you silly bastard, you did this for a token amount and I pray you don’t get out of it, shameless bastard, you should be ashamed of yourself cos you are a disgrace to the public sacrity of marriage.

  • Only TeeJay said something meaningful. The rest of u condeming n cursing the poor man. If men was god. Smh. His own life, he has choosen to live it d way he understands it. If u feel its nt gud enough for u, pray for him. U urself speaking, including me, isnt living a better life than him so y judge?

  • My pple, lets pray harder o. Dre re so many gays & dose dat practise lesby in dis contry. Dis re signs of d end time. Hwevr, dis story is sickning.

  • That is a useless attitude, people re lookin forward to greater height, and someone is dipin himself into a pit of hell, may God restored him bck. Amen

  • Dis guy is nothng buh a useles fool,n u shall remain useles as long as ur a gay u had beta repent n turn 2JESUS CHRIST. mcheeeeew 4ur mind u b wife.

  • Chika!!! Ala kugbukwa gi, iwuola awuo, Ala biafra kugbukwa gi. I pity d mama weee carry u 9months born u, CHAI……so u no c wok 4 germany na to giv ur ike nsi to abino mek him deh pow yama yama inside eeeeh ur fnshed onless u repent

  • Mr. Man, chika or wateva u called urself, hv u wedded idiot dat ur prick will remain locked ewu akpu aga-ahia. U hv not seen wat u done urself untl u c it. Wife, mrs. Chika onye ara ogbete, rubbish and useless man. Hw many u get na.

  • You guys don’t know that this chika is only being a gay because of the money he get from the German. He had no money that was why he went back

  • Madam chika, i knw u hv nt come back 2 9ja don’t eva dream 4 it bcos u wll nt b saved, nkita ara. 2 whom did ur husband (marc) pay d bride prce 2 ? Hw many children hv u born 4 him? onye iberibe, mrs. Marc schwartz. Fool, only bt cursed child u didn’t c throwing of dirty and house-maid work odas r doing dia useless boy, abegi go 2 hell wit dat ur marriage.

  • O God pls save us al from dis signs of end time. Pls touch d heart of chika 2 c reasons y he shud dpart from dis evil ways 4 ders no gain at al

  • Useless generation! Unna people go do anything to de disgrase us! If not drug na gay! Watin sef! No be ur mate be bracket?Them don blind unna abi or cos of money the guy de give u? Useless boy! U better repend and ask God to forgive you!

  • Chika u a useless fool, idiot.mumu ,nonentity, nicompu, scaliwag, tankanyag tankanyag rubish . Make satan cotinue to punish. u. OLODO.

  • pple y re u referring to him as a man he just called himself somone’s wife so….? hopeless animal,cursed creature am sure d womb dat concieved u must av rejected u…mtchew

  • its a lie ohh chika, im not gay you fucking bastard. go and fuck ur brother, its you and him that are married!!

  • You are sincerely crazy. What is God’s purpose for your life? It is never an error if your mother had aborted your pregnancy? What an error! Change from this your evil way. Stop the nonsense. End it now. Divorce him and face your life. God will help you; there is still hope for you.

  • My own is just a piece of advice. The bible said that all have sinned and come short of the glory of God. The word is repent, all sin is equal so am a sinner and will never condemn u but u have to repent and come to God. Don’t fell u have ended but fell that from ur sin u are upgraded to a better level.you that is cursing this guy either u have come to break any of the ten commandments and remember what Jesus told the Jews when they want to stone the adulterous woman to death. If u don’t know what to say close ur mouth. Chika may God show u his light amen.

  • Mr. Chika, you are still young it is not too late to repent and quit this life. Come home and start over, please. God will surely ask our leaders for letting this happen to their subjects. Come home, Chika, please!!!!

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