Must Read! – 26 Year Old Girl Who Had 26 Abortions Tells Her Story

I am 26 years old. I simply got into sex out of ignorance like millions of young people today. My addiction placed me as the highest abortionist in the world at age of 26 and now, I have a sad story to tell.
Until I found myself in a total mess, I never really had any Idea what premarital sex was all about. I never knew it was so useless and killing. Before I got into it, I use to think it was some fun and I dreamt of it more often than not. I wished with all my heart to have a boyfriend whom we would explore it together, little did I know that I was being nasty to myself.

Because of things I see on TV and magazine, I thought having sex was so much fun, I fantasized about it each time I felt lonely. Only if I had known that everything I see in movies and soap operas were just acting and make belief; only if I had known that there is nothing in sex after all, the only thing in it is self destruction; I think my life wouldn’t be this miserable.

It’s a pity i really had to learn the hard way and I really wish I had never been born, I wish I had not come out into this deceitful world where nobody cares about young people, all the so called adults do is how they would play on the intelligence of young people in a bid to exploit and use them to satisfy their insatiable sexual passion. I really feel bad about this wicked world.

My plight started when I was sixteen, then I was still a virgin and in secondary school, I was ignorant of many things but because I see it every day on the TV and internet. More so, a couple of so called Anti AIDS people visited us in school a couple of times for lectures, but all they did was introduce sex to us even more because they really had nothing but condoms to show.

Fine, they told us about AIDS, but at the same time, they also told us about condoms, they never really said anything real about sex, they said we could contact AIDS not through sex, but unprotected sex, which means there was nothing wrong with sex as long as you could use condoms, but all of that I now know very well are lies, and I wonder why men and women would enjoy telling teenagers deadly lies like that.

Even though I can’t blame those people totally for my plight because they weren’t really the ones that said I should go into sex, I still never forgive them for encouraging me and other young people like me into sex with their preaching of protected sex or condom. Even though I wanted to see what sex was really like and I fantasized about it, some were within me, I was still very scared of what may happen to me afterwards if l tried it, and it was that fear that actually kept me away from it until I was sixteen.

By the time I was sixteen, my fantasy had gotten enough boost to express itself with reliance to said to myself one day, “free yourself baby girl, there is nothing terrible in sex, can’t you see everyone is doing it, by the way, you can always use condoms nothing will happen”. So, I finally decided to let go of my fears and embrace in totality my silly fantasies, and that was how I took the very first step into this miserable life of illicit sex. I had absolutely no idea of what I was going into.

I finally agreed to date this guy who had been disturbing me for more than a year, his name was Andrew. Andrew was five years older than me. Both of us began enjoying sex,  we did it every seconds, every minute; I became addicted that I do not love doing it with condom anymore. Within the period, I had 14 abortions for Andrew, and not only that, I cheated on him in several occasions, I felt doing it with other guys will give me better sensation but all were the same.

My school teacher got me and at the end of the day I had 6 abortions for him. And worst among was my sexual affairs with my close relations, which resulted to 5 abortions. Then I felt I was at the top of the world. I will never forgive my friends who introduced me into partying and sleeping with old men with potbelly and rough skin only in the name of sex.

Right now, all those men have gone, and then shadow of my past sexual life still follows me around. All this pills and tablets I took are now telling on my blood stream. At times I felt like committing suicide each time I remember what the doctor told me, “Tessy, I am sorry, your womb is automatically damaged on account of the several abortion you had”, “I’m sorry, you will never conceive again in your life, but just thank God, you don’t have HIV or AIDS”.

I therefore, advise every young girl reading this piece today, to over look every fantasy towards sex. Sex is good but it has time. And that is in marriage. Keep yourself away from men. Make friends with those who mean good for your future.

71 COMMENTS

  1. Y is she blaming others 4 her stupidity… She should take responsibility 4 her carelessly n stop blaming friends n media. Though those things could impact negative thought in ones mind but dt’s in a mind dt’s willing to accept. I’m 26 too, happily married. I had fun too in my tenage years but I knew what n what not to do. She’s really lucky it’s only her womb dt’s spoilt, some gals lik her get used 4 rituals. She had beta shape up n stop blaming other 4 her siliness.

  2. Well she wanted it badly dat she got it badly. My prayer 4 her is dat God who 4gives all sins 4giv her nd if she is married God should bless her wit a baby. I just hope d gals out there get dis nd read it 2 bt gals d jus hear nd say she no no her way dats y, bt I tell dat way same tin she said 2 her self bt now c d way she com no d way.

  3. Thank God you live to give this sad story.one thing I know is God cannot lie his word are yea and amen draw close to him and he will draw close to you.the devil is the gratest accusser but the holyspirit helps our infirmity so he is there to help ♈☹ᵘ forget your past.I pray with you by Gods word which states none shall be barren in the land and I prophesy to that womb to b friutfull in jesus name AMEN.please stay connected to GOD and remain blessed my dear sister.

  4. My dear, God stil luvs u d way u are, He can make ur lyf meaningful and worth living if only u come to him. HE’s rit dear at d door of ur hrt no mata wot u ve done in d past he is eva ready to forgiv u.tink abt dis. GOD LOVES U NO MATTER WOT. Dont tink u r nt worthy to b called his child bcos he’s always dia by ur side!

  5. You actualy take a wrong step and may die not having a husband bks no man will keep a fellow man as a wife.now that u learned ur lesson this way,what is ur final advice for urself?will u continue like that since u r adicted or will u live d rst of life witout fok anymore.

  6. Ha! Dis is serious. Were these killings done in one hospital n who prescribed those pils. The 2 of u shld run to God as soon as possible n he will you through. There’s nothing imposible for him to do. He has done b4, he can do it again

  7. Her womb is very stubborn, for allowing her 2 kill 26 babies. She should fill no regret, even if her womb still function after 26 abortions, n she decided not to hav any abortion again, her womb will still carry on wit d aborting process, any pregnancy dat comes into that womb will be aborted automaticaly by d womb itself

  8. Tessy true u wanted sex roughly and u got it roughly too. Ur parents didn’t do enough to bringup in d way of d Lord. U grew up wide,very sad. God is able and d healer,HE wil heal u,if u totally surender. I tink he alow u to leave 4u a purpose yet to be acomplished. U had it badly,i tink sex is stil good to health and mentality.

  9. My dear, I will only advice you to rely on God, forget the Doctors report! Why is it that after having the first 14 abortions as u said u still took in and did 15th to 26th! Listen God has something in stalk for you, being suicidal won’t save a dime it will lead to a world of gnashing of teeth and evalasting pain, this is not an adventure but a lesson to all- sex is honourable in marriage but to all youth sex is deadly! BE WISE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! +2348163804626 pin 23458000

  10. Truely, it is a sad occurrence but all d same, come 2 God nd accept Jesus Christ in2 ur life now as ur Lord nd ur personal Savior. He is able 2 accept u back nd 4give u ur sin, no matter may b what u hav done. As he said in his word dat; Mercy triumph over judgement, his mercy is sufficient 4 u, dat is d reason why u are not die during dis furious nd dubious rage dat u have committed. God wl help u as u do so in Jesus name. Amen.

  11. This is just pure ignorance. A made-up story to lecture women on sex and abortion. Where are the fake-stories lecturing men on their sexual behavior and abortions? Sex starting at 16, so in 16 years, 26 abortions? What fool believes that exaggerated story? A school girl describes multiple abuses by school teacher, older men, and STILL the story is written to make sure the girl is blamed and NO question of the child molesting men. And the pure pure good religious folk in the comments don’t do so either. THAT’s another social problem – the hypocrisy of shaming little girls but aiding and abetting and excusing the sexual deviance of men against them. That’s also why sexual abuse is rife in your schools and communities – and the little girls are blamed. SICK!

    Foolish statements like this “so called Anti AIDS people visited us in school a couple of times for lectures, but all they did was introduce sex to us even more because they really had nothing but condoms to show.” are so stupidly written that one can scarcely imagine the writer was even trying to pretend it is a ‘real story.’ SURE, telling teenagers about AIDS just introduced them to sex more because surely they’d otherwise not have heard about it.

    The only thing more stupid is the comments prattingly on about religion. THAT’s why a bunch of backward people are mired in HIV/AIDS spreading around society where many other places in the world are not. Because fewer people are running around having sex unaware and unprotected while wailing for God to protect them (not condoms and awareness because those are bad, right?).

    Is this what passes for information? Some made-up tale written little a fool trying to scare youth with ridiculous tales of the girl with 26 abortions? SHE HAS AN ABORTION EVERY DAY!!!!!! Not even basic biological understanding would fall for this – but again the problem here is just ignorance all ’round.

    Same reason why your electricity is often most of the time. You sit in the dark and act like ignorant child about sexual issues and pray for God to protect you from AIDS and get your electricity working.

  12. Congratulations!!!
    Good news for you…..
    Paul lived a far more terrifying life than yours..yet, God used him better than any apostles.
    Do not point accusing fingers at anybody.
    God is not interested in your past….strive to live the rest of your life for God….Human’s report on your ruptured womb will turn to a testimony.

  13. viola or wat is your name?
    with this your looooong epistle to disregard the so called make belief or story to scare the youth away from premarital sex and the aftermath result of unwanted pregnancy, damage womb or being infected with Hiv Aids, what message are you now trying to pass to the youth? madam or mr ‘know all’

  14. stop blaming her some of us are worst than her.my dear friend Jesus is still interested in you.The thief at d cross gain salvation at the 11 hour,God is giving u a second chance 2 re-write the pages of ur life again.Isaiah 1 vs 18 read it n mediate on it.God loves u no mata what.So cheer up.go n sin no more.

  15. Dis gal is useles nd stupid she s lucky she s stil alive wait a min who s she blaming she must b out of her mind wat a world d hospital should b ijacked by d govt. Wel my only advice 4 her is to continue her way of lyf oops dnt get me rong she s already doom 4 life.

  16. similar cases are still being experience by many women today. Do u know why many ladies even married can’t give birth but go about spiritual houses seeking for prayers to restore their wombs? ABORTION they did when they where still unmarried. the so-called “flexing” “enjoyment” or whatever they call it is not helping matters at all. Know that what u do today as youth will affect u tomorrow. God bless u all

  17. Whether it is Tale-tell or Tales by moonlight OR whatever, it is an eye opener to all of us especially those girls/women whose second names are IT-DOS’NT-MATTER. SO MANY PEOPLE DO IT WITHOUT QUALMS. For you young girl or Story teller, 26 abortions? In how many years and how old are you now? Praise God you are still with us. Jesus is calling you NOW do not say tomorrow for tomorrow may be tooooooooo late. Let us learn from all we see, read and hear everyday. God bless us. Amen.

  18. I agreed with J.O.P, “CONGRATULATIONS!” Depend solemnly on God cos He has the final say in your life; Just like Arthur said “forget the Doctors report” its really doesn’t count when God steps in; Also Gbegu made a very important point here that “it was Not you who was doing all those things but there was a demon behind it” And thats what is controlling a lot of young adult and people generally this days, especially when you and God are backing each other, no mutuality, you become blindfolded in such a way that you only see good in the evil things you do. But I tell you the truth girl, God was there when all these were happening, but He allowed it be, for He knew that if He had stepped in to stop you then you would had not heard Him; so He allowed your mind to be ruled and controlled by your fantasy and unquenching desire for sex without really caring about it end result. Now that you have realised that you were wrong accept it with good faith and blame nobody; for the fact that you didn’t die it not by mistake or any man’s doing. All you need to do is to welcome Jesus Christ whole heartedly into your life and never let go of Him and you will see God smiling and welcoming you with His two arms open and saying “Yes! Thats my daughter that the world tried to steal from Me” and your latter end Will be glorious. Once again CONGRATULATIONS!.

  19. Wow wats a world,,,,,every body wit his/her own mind set,,,,u dnt blame anybody for ur ambition for sex am 25 i havnt had sex and nt a Gay as many wuld tink i beliv is a good lesson for d young ones i watch blue films it doesnt do any sex urge to me dnt worry u shall concieve lesson to younger ones,,,

  20. Waoo!! it’s a pitty dat u comfortabily passed 2ru dos 26 abortions. But dat is in d past nd u should put dem bhind u and come 2 God 4 he said com un2 me al ye dat re heavily laden nd i wil giv u rest. He also who has belif our report nd 2 whom is d hand of d lord revealed. Just belif in d report of d lord dat said cal upon me in d daz of ur troble nd i’ll hear nd deliver u

  21. my dear needless crying over spilt milk. Thank God u’re alive to tell the story. With Jesus u will have a meaningful life again cus He said come unto me all ye that are weary and heavy laden i will give u rest. He also said come let us reason together though ur sins might be as dark as charcoal He will make u to be as white as snow. Just say yes to him with sincerity ur joy will be like fountain. It’s well with Jesus my sis

  22. There is hope 4 a tree whose branches where cutdown,thank God 4 d confessions & repentance,there is hope 4u Girl!ur womb can be restored & hv fruits,believe inJ.E.S.U.S,HE is the only one who can do it,dont make any mistake by going elsewhere,HE has done it b4 HE will do it again,what u need 2 do now is 2 trust & obey HIS words.

  23. My dear ur stry is a sad one,bt neva d less God cn stil repair ur lyf in a tear ruba product if only u believe n sumit ur lyf 2 hm,he said even if our sins is black lyk charcaol he cn make it as white dan snow.u r hs daugther n he creatd u 4 a popose,so hav faith in hm.

  24. To be remorseful is good, but to repent and accept Jesus is both better and best. I feel for you but my anoyance is that most have told this kind of story and still stick to their sins/old ways. There is still hope for you when you come 2 God and believe Him.

    I wish u the best.

  25. Look at how they are all giving one comment after the order, sharing sympathy and so serious with your comments. Oh! Guussshhh! Spare me those!!
    This story, to me is an abstract write-up just to warm our girls of their jovia lifestyle. 26 abortions…. Yea!! Right… Is she an animal? But thanks for the framed story. We will be careful. Isn’t it girls…

  26. Look at how they are all giving one comment after the order, sharing sympathy and so serious with your comments. Oh! Guussshhh! Spare me those!!
    This story, to me is an abstract write-up just to warm our girls of their jovia lifestyle. 26 abortions…. Yea!! Right… Is she an animal? But thanks for the framed story. We will be careful. Isn’t it girls…

  27. Parents are the closest teacher that children need to rely on as God as place them to be the intermediary. Tessy miss this that is why she is a victim of circumstance so at this junction I belief you still have hope if you can surrender the tottality of your life on to Jesus Christ.

  28. d social workers av done a lot of good by going to places to preach d message of proper use of Condoms, faithfulness and Abstinence from sex to d young ones. So, blaming them for enlightening u, makes u a liar. May I ask y u didn’t include d Abstinence and faithfulness message? U omitted them to prove that u really av a case, right? U r a loser! For ur info, thoe ppl av done a great deal of good than u claim. Young ppl like u dt av this problems are just stubborn or stupid. Admit it! Anyway, u’ve done well to warn other young pple abt d dangers of premarital sex.

  29. Yemade.Tessy I thank God for your like. For giving u d grace to be alive n share ur story. I am convinced within me that u are alive today to tell ur story is bcos Jesus Love u. Just like Ben as said itis not too late for you. You can still be happy again,even though medical doctor had told u,u can not conceive again. I am telling Doctor Jesus will make u conceive again. If only u will accept Him as ur Lord n personal Saviour. You will be HAPPY AGAIN I said.

  30. Sister, what God requests is repentance not only regret. If you regret your actions of the past then take another important step of believing what JESUS had done for you. HE had taken away your sins. He had taken away your causes because HE was caused so that you can enjoy blessing. Sis you have to believe this very important thing that God allowed you to still be a living so that you can still retrace your path to HIM. HE had finished and conquered sins on the Cross of Calvary that who so ever believe in His death is free from sin. Sis. just believe in the finished work of Christ and that we lead you to repentance which will facilitate your recovery and a close relationship with Christ. Christ await you today. This is the only pill that will heal your wound.

  31. Gød løves yøu dear..,yøu being alive tø tell the støry is a sign. He jst kinda used yøu tø save many lifes…i vivid|y advise yøu give yøur life tø him før Gød almighty løve sinners willing tø repent than any øther thing.

  32. It was rather a sad MOMENTS, but the gudnews is u ar alive n life goes on.what it means is that u were working 4 d devil but God had saved u. But to make this forgiveness complete, dear, u need 2 accept Jesus in ur life n i bet u, u wll Find the happiest MOMENTS 4 the rest of ur life. Just give God a test just as u first gave in the sx life. God bless u.

  33. wow! that’s so sad, my dear don’t be doomed by your past mistakes, thank God u’ve come back to ur senses though late but not too late bcos God can make u happy again, he can even restore back ur womb just go to him like the prodigal son and confess ur mistakes and promise and be determined to live a straight forward life and u will see God in action, he is the same today yesterday and forever.