Why Do ‘Bad Girls’ Find It Easier To Get Married?

.. OK now you might want me to define what i meant by my BAD…ness , according to the dictionary  being ‘BAD‘  means not good in any manner or degree, so if u add ‘GIRL’ to that i guess it literally would  mean girls that acts in not so goods manner… that simple .

Ada (not her real name) is a childhood friend and she is in her mid twenties and shes happily married now with two kids,Ada i remember was a club freak,she never had a friday night that she would be the comfort of her bed unless maybe in the early hours probably in another man’s bed, she partied liked her heart needed it to pump blood,she was loose ,had so many male friends,changed boy friends like she changed clothes  but yet she had a classy wedding. yeah! believe me .

I also  know of several other ladies in my neigborhood if you wondering where that is? just type SURULERE LAGOS in google map and you would have an idea of where am talikng about, back to my story this ladies are what we the presumed good guyz (yeah am a good guy) term has ‘bad’ ,but along the line they all keep getting married and living happily i may not know of the ever after but my big question is ‘WHY DO ‘BAD GIRLS’ FIND IT EASIER TO GET MARRIED?’

I might need the help of guys here, is it that guys find them more attractive? and prefer them to the praying lady who is in her late thirties hoping for Mr right to come calling,or is that the so called bad guls are deperate and they know how to reach out to get what they want? either way the rate is becoming alarming and i really do feel for the good lady that is hoping and waiting, keeping her self undefiled and yet no sign of light at the end of the tunnel…but really why? …lol

So my opinion is pretty simple ..Time will always tell either u are a GOOD OR BAD…GBAM!

27 Comments

  • The answer to your question is simple. The “Bad girls” are open to new things and not suppressed in their behaviour or desire, if you like, to conform to being a “good girl”. They are more in touch with who they are,what they want than the so called “good girl” who lives her life following the rules someone taught her. Shake off this Good vs Bad ideology and realise that nothing is black and white, but all shades of grey.
    Personally, I would never marry I woman I’ve never been with, and there’s a lot of men like me out there. In closing, the labelliing of a girl as “Bad” is a terrible thing to do, because its a relative statement. Bad in comparison to who? No ones perfect and no one knows that better than “Bad girls”.

  • The bad girls wear what guys wanna see nowadays.they hang around places only guys with enough cash wld go.hence they meet the rich dudes.and since bad chics are masters at pretending,they become whatever the rich dude’s definition of a wife is. The good girls dnt go to this places and to b sincere,they dnt dress attractively most times.(not talking about indecent dressing now.I am talking about dressing smart and looking nice at d same time) they dnt use makeup (which we all know makes up about 95% of a girl’s beauty sometimes). The bad girls find d rich dudes cos they make demselves noticed. The good girls don’t always find d rich dudes cos they dnt make demselves noticed. Their fault. But I will still chose a fairly attractive good wife material chic over a bad never staying in one place for long diva.

  • The so called Bad girls are in touch wit the modern world. They are adventureous and know how to get what they want. They don’t pretent. And believe me most men will like to know exactly the type of women they are getting into. If the bad girls want big stout, believe me they will tell you so. Unlike the good girl who will love to have a big stout but wil deceive you into beleiving she has never tasted alchohol in her life.

  • The bad girl’s always make a good wife than the praying type who pretended to be holy after married them they will showed you the different colours she made of.The fear of the praying ladies is the beginning of wisdom.Take it or leave it!

  • Quite on the contrary, its not bcos d gud gurls dnt dress attractiveli dat d̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣̥ don’t get a gud man 2 settle down with, its basical bcos, most single guyz b4 d̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣̥ get married nd settle down, d̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣̥ frequent all sorts of hang out joints nd clubs. D ‘gud gurlz’ dnt go 2 such places, deir idea of fun is mayb goin swimin, visitn frenz, goin 2 d muviz, etc. D ‘bad gurlz’ frequent d hang out joints nd clubs d single guyz go 2. Hence d̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣̥ meet d single rich guyz hu d̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣̥ hook up with nd b4 U̶̲̥̅̊ knw it d̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣̥ head 2 d alter. So basicali dats jst d way it is. 1 wud suppose dat U̶̲̥̅̊ being a gud gurl nd all U̶̲̥̅̊ shud b d 1 2 settle down with a rich cool dude, buh U̶̲̥̅̊’d hav 2 meet d guy b4 U̶̲̥̅̊ settle wit him, nd U̶̲̥̅̊ can’t meet d guy by sitn at home all day, dou it works 4 some pple. So my advice 2 ‘gud gurlz’ go out, hav fun, live a little nd hopefuli U̶̲̥̅̊’d b walkin down d isle soon. U̶̲̥̅̊’d also hav 2 dress decentli attractive, use makeups, wear gud shoez, walk wit charisma nd poise. Gudluck

  • From my simplistic point of view,the so called “badgirls“ posses the physiological endowments that most guys get attracted with. They are intelligent,good-looking,much exposed and most especially can change positively when they finally settle down.
    However,“badgirls“ should be relative. A sossy,arogant,disrespectful and recalcitrant girl is not the same with a prostitute.

  • Good girl bad girl,what’s that?The problem here is the world is not going according to God’s plan or design that’s why the world is not in order today.That’s why we have a lot of bad marriages today,marry today divorce tomorrow.When it comes to marriage,is basically when God wants it to happen that’s when it will happen,when u run faster than ur shadow,u end up having prbs.Hanging @ pubs or bars or joints in d name of hawking for a husband that’s crap that’s why u guys termed those girls that hang@ bars as bad girls but to me hanging@ such places doesn’t make a woman bad,if u are bad u are bad whether u sleep in d church or hang@pubs,That’s our mentality talking.Abroad people go to bars or whatever joint to relax and enjoy themselves that doesn’t make that woman bad.What I want to say is this,man or woman if u wanna settle down make sure u pray abt it for God to give u a woman destined for u cuz bible recorded that every good thing comes from him.When u marry without consulting God,u will end up crying one way or d other.See what is happening today,80 percent of marriages today is bullshit,married women sleeping around like dogs,married men sleeping around as if they have never tasted woman in their lives.God is not stupid,is not how far is how well.If bad girls marry faster more than good girls is becuse good girls wants a man destined for them not a man destined for all women.Live according to God’s plan cuz life is short,marriage or not,it wont take u to heaven if u don’t live right.

  • The basic truth is that whatever that comes a lady’s way, she is the sole architect of it. Life should be living yourself(who, what and how you are) and not imitation, pretence, disguise or double dealing. GOD is not an author of confusion and can not be mocked either, he never and will never those that hoped on HIM. If any supposed good-girl didn’t get what is good, then she should reconsider her yardstick of “good-girlism” . The assumed “BAD-GIRLS” are simply living themselves and are mostly to change for better to please their true lover-man.

  • The basic truth is that whatever that comes a lady’s way, she is the sole architect of it. Life should be living yourself(who, what and how you are) and not imitation, pretence, disguise or double dealing. GOD is not an author of confusion and can not be mocked either, he never and will never fail those that hoped on HIM. If any supposed good-girl didn’t get what is good, then she should reconsider her yardstick of “good-girlism” . The assumed “BAD-GIRLS” are simply living themselves and are mostly to change for better to please their true lover-man.

  • I think the bad gurls are smatter wen bin compared wit d gud ones. They alws know how to get wot they want sinc dey are vry gud in game of relationships. but d fact stil remains dat many of dem who rush into marriage equally rush out and dat is y the rate of divorce is bcomin so alarmin. my advic for d gud girls is dat it pays 2be gud nd no matter how much time it make take, d gud guy wold surely come

  • When we say that a girl is bad, it has a lot of things to justify that. Christ tell us that what makes a man unclean is not the thing that comes from outside but the thing that come from inside the person. In this case is not always wise to stand up and say that a girl is bad if you have not known what is inside her heart. God knows us better and he is the re-warder. Meanwhile a girl getting married to rich guy, is never the end, there is a lot after marriage. The issue here is; When we do good, good awaits us. and when we do bad bad awaits us, unless God chooses to have mercy, when he looks at our heart.

  • it happens bcos we guys are always carried by wot we see , so d call bad girls are ready to display d stuff dey have n dis show d end is near,when pple wil see bad n call it gud n vice versa

  • The demon u know is fa better dan d 1 u donot know,Also a birth at hand is stil preferable dan millions birth n d bush, 2me dose pamissive ladies are fa beter dan authorian ones, bcos i know wat dey are unto compare 2

  • They simply know how to handle good men. they know all what a man needs and this is because on the experience they have had in their wild world.

  • The issue, I think is in LESSONS OF LIVING A BAD PAST and DECISION TO KEEP AWAY FROM A BAD PAST. They are certainly “experienced” in managing relationships, as they are not likely to be out there looking for saints which the “good” girls will always be sourcing for. In addition, because of their “terrible” background, they are most likely to know how to get their spouses satisfied in the intimate demand of the marriage “BOXING ARENA”, whereas, the “good” girls might be counting the dirts. Simply put, lets all be realistic and prayerful, relationships are bound to be rocky, but let everybody be careful in condemning their partners and things would work out. This is most especially for the “GOOD” girls.

  • Trly I must confess dis is a gud topic dat need 2 b handle wit care* respect 2 al ladz out there, pls let no 1 run U down noin its ur lif & try 2 liv rit.GOD BLESS 9JA

  • i think the so called bad girls get married on time more than the good ones cos the bad ones go out and meet men of their choice and will become open to her dude but the pretending good one will stay at home and be claiming church while they are hiding their character.just give them a chance and they will show u the reason y they av been holy.all the same,destinies are not the same…..

  • i think the so called bad girls get married on time more than the good ones cos the bad ones go out and meet men of their choice and will become open to her dude but the pretending good one will stay at home and be claiming church while they are hiding their character.just give them a chance and they will show u the reason y they av been holy.all the same,destinies are not the same…..thanks

  • The issue is not whether you are a good girl or a bad girls,God is not interested in our natural good deeds,that are most time very deceptive.Most people don’t know what marriage is all about;if you ask an average lady why she wants to marry she will tell you, my mates are married so I also want to get married.We don’t seek for God’s mind in marriage.In addition,human being whether male or female we possess deep within us a lot of evil practices such as evil pleasure,fornication,and all sort of immoral acts.The issue now is that we should get married for God’s purpose and not for our own lust.Because of the fact that human being don’t know what God is doing today in this end- time,there are so many deception going on in the world.Man is being deceive concerning virtually everything;he wants to be independent of God.And just imagine when a creature is independent of the creator,so many things will be wrong in his life.

  • the bible say he that fine a good wife fine a good thing, if u marry a good lady u will envoy it better than u expect it, therefore always try to make sure that u have a good relationship before u marry, so that u will live longer and rap what u sold, while all is well if u believe that,be good to those that are good with you.

  • the bible say he that fine a good wife fine a good thing, if u marry a good lady u will envoy it better than u expect it, therefore always try to make sure that u have a good relationship before u marry, so that u will live longer and rap what u sold, while all is well if u believe that,be good to those that are good with you. have a wonderful marriage to you all bye

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