I Cheated On My Husband And I Plan To Continue

cheatI have been the angry, unsatisfied and bitter wife for the last nine years. I’m married to a man who has absolutely no respect for the marriage institution. He has had more girlfriends than I have changed my hair since we got married. He started cheating on me months after our wedding in 2004 when I was pregnant. And it hasn’t stopped ever since. Every other day a different girl, a different situation, a lot of drama. Initially he would lie or try to cover up when I ask him questions or catch him but now he tells me to go to hell and leave the marriage if I was no longer satisfied.

Well, I have four kids and I don’t plan to be a single mother in this kind of environment so I’m staying put in my marriage but I’m done being the victim. Yes, I have started cheating on my husband. I am proud to say I have a boyfriend who I have regular, satisfying sex with. And I have absolutely no plans of being the faithful wife ever again. Once this affair ends, I’m starting a new one. There’s no going back now. As long as he’s cheating on me, I will be cheating on me. I smile a lot these days and it’s not just Jesus putting the smile on my face. This is the happiest I have been in at least 8 years. And I also discovered that quite a number of my female friends have been cheating on their husbands for years now. Why didn’t anyone give me the memo sooner? Just thought to share my happy story. Xoxo Happy Lagos wife

44 Comments

  • You are a dead woman already, u are just roaming abt on earth here. You are comiting an adultery, you are a bad wife. How would the world know if u were not doing it even before your husband. You have no shame and had the gunts to come in a social network and opened your dirty mount and said u are proud of being an adulaterer. Fuck u, fuck ur husband. A man can marry more than 50 wive if possible, a woman can never gets married in 2 places at the same time. U better change b4 ur days runs out u fool.

    • Am in no support of anyone but I don’t like d words U use. a guy who dates so many while in a marriage is d same as a woman who does dt. if ure talking abt adultery,they both are doin d same thing so don’t make it sound onesided.

      • So is now a pride to cheat on ur husband?i don’t tink u hv a tradition. Woe to u dis lady,u r a disgrace,what were u even expecting frm us as u said those rubbish?u wnt us to clap for u???is just a pity dat u couldn’t lay ur burden to God

    • Teby that a stupid things to say, ooh u expect her to be the victim always, while the guy goes on wagging his dick with anything under skirt. Well I don’t blame her. Am wif u girl, ride on.

  • I know how u feel lady, infidelity in marriage is wrong. Your husband cheating on u is wrong but then, you don’t pay evil for evil. Commit ur husband into Gods hand and he will turn a new leave. Jesus loves u.

  • Hey a! It’s quite a pity. I empathize with you. I can feel your frustrations. But two wrongs cannot make a right. Please, Stop it and resurrender your life to Jesus as your Lord and personal Saviour. Don’t you know it is the devil and demons possessing your husband. Please, you have to go on your knees and get him back by crying to God with a perfect heart. Remind God He brought you into it and so He will see you through it. The truth is that it’s only the Holy Spirit that can change him because they’re demons possessing him and you think it’s ordinary. It’s a Spiritual warfare and the devil wants to ruin your marriage, your husband, you and your children but God forbid. I appreciate your honesty in voicing out for help. Please, stop that immediately and go to any bible believing church and surrender your life to Jesus, and then start praying for your husband. You must also forgive him by showing good attitudes to him inspite of his actions. By so doing, God will surely intervene and chase that devil away. You will surely enjoy your marriage bliss once again in Jesus Name. Amen. Shalom !

  • Tenebe or whatevr you called yourself YOU ARE A BIGGER FOOL, who made you a judge so its right for a man to cheat and out of place for a woman,Do uo have an idea what it means to have a cheating Husband?infact your dead with your low IQ am not justifying what the woman is doing but befoere you open that gutter u called mouth to abuse pple first put ursef in their place EwU-Gambia

  • woman ur days are numberred if u did nt repent and committ ur self into Gods hand dont jugde ur husband until a very good/bad day 4 him.

  • @Elma what are u saying. There is no way i am going to supot that woman. Neither did i say that what d man did at the first place is good. I will i even know if it is not through womaniser the man met her wife. He must be doing it befor he got married to the woman. So it not easy to quit if its not by the grace of God. If the man must have been like this, that means the wife was a prostitut before. Both of then should just go and find a way to break the demons using them

  • I don’t know why some people are so short-sighted I mean I may cheat on my future wife but at least I’d respect her enough to make sure she doesn’t see it, why should he carry on to her face and u expect her to just sit down and look?, two wrongs do make a right, but what is good for the gander iis good for the goose!

  • Precey Na God go punish your FATHER. God will punish all ur family. May atwakpa close your house with a palm leaf. All your family are prostitut. Since u have decided to abuse me instead of saying ur part. May accident crunch u on the way. U will die a premature dealth. Jesus what an insult one cnt react to. Shit. U no go die well

  • Precey Na God go punish your FATHER. God will punish all ur family. May atwakpa kill all your family and close your house with a palm leaf. All your family are prostitut. Since u have decided to abuse me instead of saying ur part. May accident crunch u on the way. U will die a premature dealth. Jesus what an insult one cnt react to. Shit. U no go die well

  • Jesus help me. PRECEY or what ur name is, your family no go c ur body bury. U hear me? Egwi ebe ola gbe. Atwakpa lo la gba limhi afe natse. U will nt see the light of tomorrow.

    • Tenebe I knew it takes a muderer to Vomit those trash,since I do not speak your language all the trash you wrote will befail on your entire generation,you think am scared of you.first you are not my God 2nd for you to be this bitter on social network shows that you are very bitter deaf human being am really sorry for you,those that live by sword dies by sword your end is arund the corner,MUDERER

  • Before God an man both the husband and the wife are wrong so lets not make it sound as if tradition gives the man the right to cheat on the woman. Please before we pass any judgment or give an ill comment on any post, lets first of all analyze the issue very well. As for the husband, he is not worthy to be a husband, then for the wife do not cheat because your husband is cheating so that it will not affect the upbringing of your children because whatsoever character the parents portray, can affect the moral standard of the children. Please the two of you should consider your children and do not forget to pray to God for a peaceful home.

  • Tebene Lucky,I beg u in the name of Almighty God don’t curse Precey again. To Precey let it die off like that bcos d purpose of social network is to enlighten ourself not to cause problem.Thanks

  • It is very disgusting and amazing d way most pple reacts and contributes to issue like dis when it arises. We should desist from been biased, argered, emotional abuse and written abuse to whoever dat is involved in d course of ur contributions.
    It should be noted dat, one major factors militating against marriage is cheating or infidelity at one part of d couples. This normally causes pain and suffering to parties involved.
    My dear sister, since u said u don‘t want to be a single parent to ur children, I‘m at this juncture imploring u to hv a rethink of ur earlier decision for d sake of ur children and dat of God. I understand ur pleas or feelings of been betrayed by ur hubby. Pls stop this act and ask for forgiveness and God will surely give u rest of mind. If u insist to continue, d end result always carry more weight on d part of women than men. May God help u.

  • I can only say I’m sorry you are going through this but as much as I would love to hug you for moving on with your life and finding happiness, I’m afraid I have to tell you that where you found that happiness is wrong dear and didn’t say that due to religious beliefs (though i strongly believe in God). I’m not in your shoes, I can’t know how you feel or even imagine it but think of your children and let the man be…I’m married and love my husband but I’m not deluded to the extent of thinking him a saint, I just pray that God strengthens our love…If it ever comes to that (God forbid),I’ll simply find a new hobby,buy a dildo(though i heard somewhere that that too is a grave sin) and concentrate on my children…may God help all married women…

  • Your husband may go scort free & u may end up being infected with HIV and become double losser.pls repent, don’t follow multitudes to do evil.

  • @Waliyullahi do u knw what pays me most in this matter, is they posted this thing for any one to contribut, say any tin u like. After all i did not see where they said you should advice the woman. So whey should that person called Precey if thats the name, that i dnt even knw if its a man or a woman, have to insult me. Thats what pays me most in my life fore some whom i dnt even knw to abuse. For a matter we dnt even knw if its real or not. I swear if its to be a ganthering that every have to sit that, that person said that word, i would kill him or her with a gun. Or live an everlasty injury in his body.

  • Those that abuse people they dnt know, shall die by the same sword u are talking abou. Cos i was nt talking to u. Because u know that when u insults me nothing will hapen then u went ahead. Did u remember God? U should have be objectd to my words, not for you to insult me. Have u forgoten that u also spoke your language?

    • My Dearest Tenebe why are you so bittered? What is going on in your personal life are u muslim or christian or others?I can feel anger,bitterness and hatred in ur words are you alwaz like this?have you tried to read other peoples comments? I don’t always abuse people on s/network but your comment was out of place the woman in question needs help and not abuses meanwhile as a child of the most high that iam I want apologise to you for abusing you,I dnt know you and I do not have any right to call you names am truely sorry,pls dear kindly accept my apology GOD BLESS YOU

  • I want to appreciate Precey for the boldness she displayed through his/her apology,i was compelled to say something…….What the female victim need is counselling and not condemnation…may God forgive us all…

  • We should appreciate this lady for speaking out,what she need is counseling.those condeming her may be worst than her.

  • We need not fight over smone else’s problem. Dis is a common tin within d men’s folk. They are expert cheaters but it all depends on d ability of d woman 2 try n mk tins work. Smtin must av happened dat made d man try oda ladies outside. But one tin I stongly bliv is dat there is nutin 2 hard 4 God 2 do. If u call on Him, He’ll b fathful n just 2 answer. For d sake of d future of ur kids, giv ur life 2 Jesus n lay ur burdens @ His altar, I bliv He’ll grant ur wish. Coz if ur husband discovers, ur children will know n it will affect dem. I pray dat God in His infinite mercies will c u tru dis trying time. Social network fighters, grow up n behave like adults n stop rainin abuses on ursef. It is well!

  • To err is human, but to forgive is divine.its very easy to err but to ask for forgiveness, one of the most difficult things.i love precey ‘s boldness to retrace her steps.To Tenebe and precey lets advice and correct in love.Even if this is not a true story, many may learn lessons from this scenario.This womans situation is very painful and most pathethic. Her circumstance needs Gods inervention. But she wouldnt put rope around her neck for sucide becos her husband has decided to do so.if so both will end in ruins.God save her marriage!!!!

  • Hello dear, I understand your plight bt I want u to knw that JESUS is still mindful of you. Think abt your 4 kids their future, what if u r infected with HIV? Dear, two wrongs cannot mk a right.God bless u.

  • When you say she should pray, does she know God? That is the first question. If you miss the first thing for another, it doesn’t work like that with God. Nne, you must repent from your sins and be born again.

  • Woman!u r on d way to doom.Two wrongs can neva make a right,U ave forgoten dat there wikk b judgement n condemnation after dis present life.Though it is not easy but God can make U ovacum this.

  • I salute precey’s courage 2 apologise. U ‘re a greate woman. It is great pple dat can say am sorry. But weak pple such a word can not come out of their mouth. As 4d woman dat is trying 2 revenge on her man. Rmba, 2 wrong can never made a right. Honestly i hv a lasting solutn 4u. Turn 2 Christ Jesus, i can guarantee u 100% solutn is with him. Confess ur sins 2 Him & tell Him 2 help u 2win ur husband. Ur Problem is spiritual than u think. U ‘re 2use God Mighty weapon against d enemy dat want 2 destroy ur family & d future of ur children. Pls never u co operate with d enemy 2 destroy ur home. God bless u.

  • Woman, drs is an adage dat says “a goat said 2 himself i will pupu as many times as possible so dat d 1 dat owns mi will keep cleaning n sweeping, bt wht he (goat) does nt understand is dat d more he pupu d more his bombom will keep decaying, mean while he think say na him owner him dey punish. Womannnnnnnnnnnnnn, think, think & think twice.

  • Try telling your kids, am sure they would give you a massive pat on your back. You even have the guts to mock Jesus! A psychiatric evaluation is highly recommended for you.

  • So so sorry for this union.May God be merciful on you both.But note dear,no matter how u see it,there is a punishment for infidelity on the part of you both.You should have sought God on this matter,and not taking on to revenge.Please,take note!

  • Apology is the simplest thing i can do, and insulting some1 is the last thing on my mind. You are asking me if this is hw bitter i am. Why dnt u ask ur self, if u didnt posess a bad and insulting mount, would u have say such words for the matter i did nt even calls ur name?. Do u know what it means to insult some1 publicly? Just that u wnts people to clap for you. That name Tenebe Lucky do u have any ideal how many social network i use it for?. I had no intension to cours u, you poisoned my mind. To the extend i was ashamed of myself. Asking my self y i even say any tin at the firs place. I am angry, to say the truth i am. Am sory 4 those words any. ways

  • Hey! Guys, u shd mine d language u speak here. Dis woman has a marital problem nd wot she need here s gud advice dat may change her, nd dat s wot u pple supposed 2 do, nt insulting each other on s/ntwk dat u dnt even knw each other.

  • Madam,,,,,,that not the best way to handle the matter,,,,ur decision is very wrong,it will never do u good,don’t forget ur kids are there, wat are u tryin to impact in them, for the sake of the future of ur kids stop those dirty ways of urs,,,,,,ask urself hw long will u continue flirting around.no pay no gain.

  • I swear, Tenebe no go kill me with laff for here. Ur english no go kill person. Seriously, I enjoyed Tenebe’s rants mehn(lwkmd). Dis article doesn’t show dt d woman needs our advise. So, let’s call her d prostitute she is. It is so evident dt she is d source of d problem of her home and y her husband is involved in extra marital affairs. She shd continue her sinful ways jare….pass d virtue to ur daughter, promiscuous woman. She sef wan do b4 naa

  • cheating on him is not the wisest because of your kids,hiv mite hit you and you’ll end up not seeing the fruits of your labour as a mother rather strike your husband impotent just the way yoruba women do it so he’ll knw and abide by your parables *what shall you profilt to gain the whole concubines and loose your libido”?….lmao so that the only time he gets an erection is when you re on your bikini or strings..lol

  • This lady is rely messin up she has no right to be Infedility ur nt the man nd u can’t be the man. Jst listn to ur self am cheatin on my husband my husband is nt faithful whu eva that is givin u that advice is killin u nt only that is destroyin ur home jst stick with ur husband.

  • Hmm,I hve a question for those supporting the woman. If u found out that ur mother is flirting with men and when u inquired from her she told u that she is doing it bcos ur father is cheating on her
    Will u tell her to ride on in other to get her revenge? Plss what’s the pride of a woman? What if that ur boyfriend video u making love to him and put it in the internet. What explanation will u give to ur kids, will u still be happy and continue with him or will u change to another boyfriend? Even if change ur boyfriend what if the same thing happens again u will found out that u didn’t only ruin ur marriage bt also ur life and that of ur kids and by then all those supporting u now will never want to have anything to do With u. A word is enough for a wise. May god help us all

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