Relationships: 7 Ways to Attract the Perfect Partner

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Everyone needs companionship. We all want to be with that special person who will be everything we’ve always dreamed of. Your dreams and wishes can come true. Follow these tips today to attract your perfect soul mate.

  1. You Are What You Attract

How you feel about yourself, is, most likely, how others will feel about you. If you don’t love yourself, no one will love you. If you constantly put yourself down, then you will attract people who will put you down. If you don’t respect yourself, then no one will respect you. The most important step in finding the perfect partner is to become the perfect partner.

2.  Define Your Own Standards

In the world today, we are bombarded left, right and centre with values that have become universally acceptable. They tell you that to be attractive, you have to be skinny and that your perfect mate must be tall, dark and handsome. You are not a machine to be controlled by media and reality shows. You were given a mind of your own for a reason. Use it! You decide how you want to look and how you want your perfect partner to look. It is up to you. It doesn’t matter if your friends tell you she is too fat or he is not rich. It is your decision to make.

3. Develop  A Mental Picture

To achieve anything worthwhile in this life, you must be able to envision it first. Create a mental picture of your perfect partner. Imagine meeting her, holding her hand, the amazing relationship you’ll have. Create the expectation in your heart and mind and it will manifest physically.

4. Decide On What You Want

What do you want a partner for? What should your ideal mate be like? List out the exact traits you want and prioritize them. Know exactly what you want. If you don’t know what you’re looking for, how will you know when you find it?

5. Follow Your Instincts

The human instinct is a very strong thing. Don’t fight against your instinct. If you suddenly feel like taking a walk for no reason, then do it! You never know if your perfect partner is waiting outside. If you feel like you should talk to somebody then do it! You’ll never know if you don’t try.

6. Realize That There Is No “Perfect” Person

You are not perfect so why should you expect perfection from anyone else. Your perfect partner is not a perfect person; they’re just the perfect person for you. This means that the two of you are well suited for each other and you complete each other. In other words, you are perfect together.

7. Get to Work!

Don’t just stand there waiting around for someone to come and make your life better. Start working on yourself. Work towards your dreams. Make yourself worthy, because only then can you attract a worthy mate.