I am married with 2 kids but my mind is somewhere else, what can I do? I am 37 years of age, I met this girl about 11 years ago but we couldn’t get going due to serious pressure from her parents not to marry from another tribe then we somehow broke up. I got married but now somehow, we got talking again. I love my family but it just seems that I can’t live without her. What can I do please?
It can be very hard to be with one person while loving another. However, I will go straight to the point; you are married now and your first responsibility is to your family. You are the head of that home and you can’t abandon them just to please yourself.
I know it will be difficult but you have to end all communication with that other woman. You have moved on and she should too. I hope you will do the right thing. I wish you the very best.
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