[Advice Needed] I Am Attracted To A Guy Who Is Not Into Me, Should I Ask Him Out?

Dear Tee,
There is this guy I love so much, but he wouldn’t even look at my side or talk to me. I am a very pretty girl and most guys in my department in school want to date me, but I don’t like them. Its this very guy that I am attracted to, it is not that he has some special features or character, he is just like any other guy….. But I just have a strong feelings towards him. I don’t know why he seems not to notice me despite all that I have done to gain his attention. I have a desire to go and tell him how I feel about him, should I?
Temmy.

Dear Temmy,
I am happy that you know you are pretty. I think the guy knows you are attracted to him, that is the reason he is acting up. He might or might not like you, we can’t tell. However, I think it is wrong for you to tell him how you feel about him. You are a lady and the guy might not respect you for telling him. In our society here, men are supposed to ask ladies out and not vice versa. So, relax! Let him be! Just be yourself and don’t try to win his heart by all means. What if he is not interested in you? He only ends up messing around you in the end because he wasn’t attracted to you in the first place. Take your mind off him dear, you would be fine. I am sure another guy who you would have affections for would come around.

Truly,
Tee

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2 Comments

  • TEE, THAT WAS A WRONG ADVICE, I PERSONALLY WILL BE THE LAST PERSON TO TALK TO A WOMAN BUT IF SHE HAS THE COURAGE TO SHARE HER FEELINGS NOMATTER HOW URGLY I WILL LOVE HER TILL I DIE. PLS MAKE IT OPEN TO HER, TELL HER TO FOLLOW HER HEART. PLS. THANK U

  • I don’t think you know what that girl is going through…She has a feeling 4 a guy? Nd ix eating her up dat d guy dn’t notice! Is it possible for her to bottle that up and keep acting like she feels nothing? Girl sum up d courage nd go tell im ur mind..I’m a guy nd evry girl who had the guts to express her feelins i respectd so well..If d guy accepts,fine..If not,ur feeling will gradually go and you won’t hate ursef for dat.

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