I am a married with two lovely kids. There was this girl I dated when I was still single. In fact, she was the one I wanted to marry, but her parents did not allow me to, with the excuse that I am from a different tribe. I gave up and met the woman I eventually married 6 months after. In April, I saw this girl that I once dated and we got talking again. She told me how she went through heart breaks after we broke up. Recently, her boyfriend jilted her and I was the shoulder she leaned on. I was really there for her, always encouraging her that she would be fine. The problem now is we are getting closer by the day, she is expecting me to ask her out again…. I am married here, I love my family and I don’t want to break this girl’s heart. What do I do?
Its a pity the girl is going through emotional trauma. But hey! You are married here! Your family comes first, you don’t want to ruin your home because of just one girl. You should let her know you are married, you love your home and you won’t sacrifice that for a thing. Let her look for her own man, you are already hooked. I think you should take control of this situation now before it turns into something you didn’t bargain for. Trust me, your wife wouldn’t understand what your doing wiping your ex’s tears away….. I don’t think I would either …LOL.
Take charge and let go of any thing that would serve as a home breaker.
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