Please, can you tell me what I should do? There are different girls I have fallen in love with. I also have a lot of female friends, I just find it hard to ask them out. I am 29 years old and I never asked a lady out. Every time I try to tell a lady I love her, the words won’t just come. There is a lady presently, I love her so much, we went out last saturday, I had the intention of telling her how I feel, but I ended up telling her my childhood stories and irrelevant things. I don’t know what is wrong with me? What should I do?
Dear M. K.,
I think you are a bit scared and kind of nervous. You might be thinking of what the lady’s response would be, hence your nervousness. When you ask a lady out, its either she gives you a yes or no – understand that. You should make the lady in question your friend, be free with her. Discuss with her, then you would not feel shy to ask her out. Be calm and confident, relax, smile, and tell her how you feel. She might say no, don’t feel bad, another opportunity would come up. So be a man that you are and tell her how you feel. You would be fine.
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