I met this pretty lady(A) some months back and we got close. She likes me a lot and from what I see, she is in love with me. Last month, I met her friend(B). B is not as pretty as the first A. But damn, I am so much in love with B. I can’t say what and how, but I find myself thinking about her over and over. Now, the dilemma here is how do I let A know that I don’t have feelings for her without hurting her emotions, and especially now that I am in love with her friend.
Dear K. K.,
Wow! You are in a ‘tight corner’, but not to worry, you would be fine. I think you should let A know that you are not attracted to her, you can stop doing the things you do with her to pass a message across. Tell her things that would let her know you are not into her. Keep it on the friendship level. Don’t rush into telling B you love her, clear the air with A, then you are free to declare your love to B. But hey, be careful with the way you go about it.
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