[Advice Needed] Distance Is Affecting Our Relationship And I Am In Love With Another. What Should I Do?

frustrated

Hello Tee,
I am in relationship with a girl for more than 8 years now. She stays in Ghana with her mum and siblings, we still love each other but the problem we have is the distance, which we both have been complaining about. But, there’s this girl that lives in my street and also attend the same church with me. I think I have fallen in love with this girl, she has not yet agreed to my proposal, but she’s playing along. Please what should I do?

OL

Dear OL,
Its not advisable to double date and you cannot be in love with two people at the same time. Who do you really want out of the two girls? The choice is yours! Moreover, if your girlfriend from Ghana starts living in Nigeria, would you leave this new girl for her? If yes, then I think you don’t love this new girl, she is just an option to you, out of loneliness or the need to just have someone close to you, and in the end its not going to be fair to this new girl. So, think about it and go for who you really wants.
All the best,
Tee.