[Advice Needed] I Am Scared Of Guys, Do I Have A Problem? Please Help!

Dear Tee,
I am 19 years old and I am still a virgin. I have never agreed to go out with a guy because they all say they cannot do without having sex with their girlfriends. What I am afraid of is that they all just want sex and after sex, it’s over. Please is it right to be afraid of guys because am really scared of being hurt.
KMSTRY.

Dear Kmstry,
First, let me applaud you for keeping yourself, you should keep that up. Also, I think it is normal to be scared of being hurt because of the kind of guys you have met and what they have told you. Nevertheless, all men are not the same. As you advance in life, you would meet a man that would not want to have sex with you and still love you just the way you are. Men who cherish and keep virgins might be few, but they are still available. While you wait for that man, you should keep yourself busy with your studies or a trade you can learn…. I appreciate you dear.
Truly,
Tee.

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  1. I ave been dating a girl 4 almost about 4years past now but we dont used 2 see each other except twice in the first yr dat we met… About 2wks ago now, she called me and asked of puting end 2 our relationship.. Wot should i do?