I have a boyfriend who I love dearly. But I can’t stop cheating on him with my ex, my ex also cheats on his fiancee with me. This is because we can’t just leave each other, we are so much into ourselves….but we are both scared to have a real relationship with each other. What is your take on this?
I think it is better to walk away than cheat on your partner. You and your ex just need to let go of yourselves, it is very possible and if your determined, you would surely leave your ex. If you really love your boyfriend as claimed, then you should stop communicating with your ex, delete pictures of him that you have on your phone and do away with anything that brings memories of him….for the sake of your relationship. The fact that you and your ex are scared to have a real relationship might be a pointer that things might not work out between you two. So, I advice you to stop seeing him and focus on your new boyfriend.
Hope this helps.