[Advice Needed] I Never Had Feelings For Him From The Start Of The Relationship, But He Loves Me, What Do I Do?

Dear Tee,
I used to have academic issues back then in school, then I got close to one of the brothers in the fellowship, who is quite intelligent. He helped me with my academics, and I did well after. In our last year in school, just before graduation, he asked me to be his girl. Though I didn’t have any feelings for him, I still agreed. The relationship is a year now, and I still don’t have any affection for him, but he loves me deeply. What do I do?
DT

Dear DT
You made a mistake by dating him when you didn’t have feelings for him in in the first place. Anyway, I think you should just tell him the way you feel, let him know you are not in love with him, although its going to be painful on his side…. But then he deserves to know the truth so that he can move ahead and get another girl who would reciprocate his love.
All the best,
Tee

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1 Comment

  • I advice u call him sit him n tell politely, u can start by telling him, dear am Sorry there is something I want to tell u, pls forgive me I never really luved u by I tot I could develop luv for u knowing day u r vry good person n I was scared of loosing u as a friend dats y I actually accept to date u by it’s now clear to me dat I dnt love u, am Sorry.. wit dis every gentleman will understand n appreciate u for telling d truth, I did it n it worked for me n today ll re best of frnds, good luck.

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