I used to have academic issues back then in school, then I got close to one of the brothers in the fellowship, who is quite intelligent. He helped me with my academics, and I did well after. In our last year in school, just before graduation, he asked me to be his girl. Though I didn’t have any feelings for him, I still agreed. The relationship is a year now, and I still don’t have any affection for him, but he loves me deeply. What do I do?
You made a mistake by dating him when you didn’t have feelings for him in in the first place. Anyway, I think you should just tell him the way you feel, let him know you are not in love with him, although its going to be painful on his side…. But then he deserves to know the truth so that he can move ahead and get another girl who would reciprocate his love.
All the best,
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