[Advice Needed] My Friends Think Something Is Wrong With Me Because I Don’t Have A Boyfriend? What Should I Do?

Dear Tee,
My name is Jola. I am a 17 year old girl seeking admission into University of Lagos. All my friends have boyfriends, but I do not have. They told me that if I don’t get a boyfriend now, men would be running away from me later. Is this true? I hope something is not wrong with me because one guy in my area asked me out, I gave him a “no”, because I don’t like him. I need your urgent response.
Thank you,
Jola.

Dear Jola,
There is nothing wrong with you dear, and you should not mind your friends as well. The fact that you don’t have a boyfriend does not mean a thing. In fact, it’s better that way as you would have time for the important things such as your studies. Boyfriends would come later when you are old enough for it….. Stay away from friends that are immoral and stand up for only good things that you would be proud of.
I wish you well dear,
Tee.

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3 COMMENTS

  1. Jola, u’re such a good girl & i’m proud of u that we can still found an outstanding one out many polluted teenagers in this era. Nothing is wrong with u. Infact,u’re more okay than others that are doing it. At this moment,u can’t really understand what is called real love but infatuation which is fake & unreasonable love. This is d type of love that is common among d teenagers & youths of today. It is always characterized by lust, enticement with gifts & sweet words, petting, unholy sexual desires & fornication. True love waits & bears responsibility. Inability to bear responsibility brings abortion. Sooner,such girls becomes habitual liers, truants & disobedient to parents. The end result is hell-fire. There4,don’t join them but be born again & live a righteous life. They want u to be defiled like them because they are envious of u. If possible, cut them off. Don’t let them organise rape for u. God bless u.

  2. Nothing is wropng with you my dear cos @ your age you have to focus on ya studies & get ya good grade then men wiII come 4 u from God
    Cos Ioving at this age wiII Iead to pre-maritaI sex which God abhors