[Advice Needed] She Is 5 Years Older Than I Am, Please Help!

frustratedDear Tee,
She is older than I am….. 5 years older! My parents said I should forget all about her…. I want to forget her because I am scared of this age stuff, but I pity her a lot. Who would marry her if I don’t? We have been together for 3 years, where would she start from? I am her only hope, what do I do?

Salam.

Dear Salam,
If you are scared about marrying her, then you should probably hold on till you are sure she is the one you truly want. Also, you shouldn’t marry someone out of pity, out of fear….. Perfect love is free from fear. But if you really love to marry her, then you would only let your parents see reasons why she is perfect for you.
Hope this helps.

Tee.

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1 Comment

  • PLEASE, DO NOT MARRY OUT OF PITY BUT,IF YOU REALLY LOVE HER PLEASE GO AHEAD AND MARRY HER,AGE HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH LOVE.

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