[Advice Needed] She Is Just A Friend, But She Is Pregnant For Me Now! What Should I Do?

Dear Tee,
We were just friends. She slept over in my house one day because she couldn’t get a taxi to take her home. We had sex, now she is pregnant! I do not love her at all, so I can’t marry her. What should I do?
GG

Dear GG,
The deed has been done! You have to take care of the baby and be responsible for the pregnancy. Your friend needs you now, because the pregnancy is not just for her…. Its for you both! Don’t abandon her, don’t leave her to the task of caring for the pregnancy and the baby.
Hope this helps,
Tee.

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13 Comments

  • biologicaly u can’t giv her 1 day sex n she told d world dt she’s pregnant 4 u. Xamine ur self, may be u ar d foolish 1 among her boy friends. Al d same if u ar, dn be a fool n carry d burden.

  • A lot of girls want me to woo them and whenever am talking with another they will be abuse, what can I do for them to leave me?

  • Emanson you are very wrong let me ask u Who is ur biologist dat is telling foolish tales? is dat d believe you ve been holding on To? Wow u need to wake up from ur slumber ΑϞ∂ consult books with article abt formulation of pregnancy. Tee pls accept d paternity even if u won’t marry d mother so far u are sure u owns. D pregnancy

  • Dear Tee,
    If d paternity of ur friends pregnancy bothers u so much, u shld get a paternity test at d hospital wen d baby is born. Until then, stop complain and man-up!

    Roli

  • YOU HAVE TO MARRY HER SINCE YOU’VE AGREE THAT THE PREGNANCY IS FOR YOU. SO TAKE CARE OF THE BABY & HER MOTHER

  • why should you make love to her when you do not love her? Are you truly sure you owns the pregnancy? Am not sure; am a medical student and i don’t expect fertilisation to take place so quick

  • u call her ur frend u don’t luv her but u had sex with her,not marrying her that means ur going into polygamy so be a man take up ur responsibility with time u get to love her.imagin if she ur sister.

  • u dont luv her and u make love with her nigerians when would u start to fear God, pls u should note that the Lady is someone’s daughter and there is law of nemesis.

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