[Advice Needed] 8 Years Of Relationship And He Has Not Talked About Marriage. What Should I Do?

Dear Tee,
I have been dating this guy for the past 8 years, but he has not proposed. Do you think I should stick with him? This is really amazing of him as he has never mentioned it. I never talked to him about it too. Do you think he would end up marrying me?


Dear RN,
Is your man working? Is he financially stable? Is he comfortable? Is he emotionally matured to be a husband? If your response to these questions is ‘yes’, then you could talk to him about the plans he has for the future. You should ask him questions, silence is not the best now….
Talk to him and try to know what is happening. You would know what he has in stock for you from his responses.

All the best,

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  1. my dear, dia is notin 2 sit him down n talk abt, 8 yrs is more dan enough 4 a man 2 no a woman. he has bn silent 4 eight yrs shows dt he is comfortable wt d relationship only nt marriage, gal is tym 2 leave him and look for ur own Mr right, if he is really serious abt u den he will use ds opportunity n ask himself questions abt d relationship, he might take it 2 d marriage level if he really care 4 u.



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