[Advice Needed] I Don’t Have a Stable Relationship. Why Do Men Dump Me?

images (16)Dear Tee,
I am a lady, past 30. I do not have stable relationships….. Most times, the men who ask me out are older than I am and we break up after 3 or 4 months. What should I do?

Hello KM,
If you keep having a particular result which you do not like, then you need to change the way you do things. What re the things those men complain about that make them leave you? You should look into these things and work on them, so that you would have a stable relationship. Are you giving them sex? If you are, its high time you quit. Men stay longer if you keep the icing on the cake. A man who has had sex with a lady on numerous countless situation has a less probability of staying long with such lady. Also, there is no big deal in an older person asking you to date him, if he is single.
All the best,


  1. If FG cannot meet ASUU’s demands, am on the oppinion that Nigerian Laboure Congress(NLC) should declare a nation wide strike in support of ASUU. Laboure is the only body that’ll quicken the FG in its decisions and or negociations with ASUU. FG should pay ASUU workers their 92billion naira earned allowances rather than giving them 30billion and asking them to make sacrifises. I keep asking why they would not sacrify their salaries to pay up their depth to ASUU. Each senater earns nothing less 27million naira quaterlyt but to pay others who have laboured since 2009 is being a mirage as they allow Nigerian graduates to make money fron car washing buisness, they must all ruth in hell. Jonathan should resign or face impeachment.

    • Dis asuu strike is become sometin else o, if i may ask, asuu need 92 billion naira for allowance, do dey really work that amount, is it all lecturer that derserve the payment, what about the lecturer that don’t lecture bt come to lecture hall to say nonsense and go away, what about those lecturers that do runs nd sleep around with female student and also those lecturer that destroys student life e.t.c. If they truely worth that amount, what should be done to those lapses. Asuu u need to do some rethinking. Jesus loves you all.

  2. its high time NLC do something in other to assist ASUU achieve their set goal… Its hight time the educational sector in nigeria sanitize… They have sufferd for too long… Please NLC come to the aid of student by granting ASUU the little right they are asking for.

  3. dear KM its high time u check out the pillars in wich u have been building all this ur past relationship. Whats the crack on the pillars do u really figure it out? If know try and give it a taught, what is it u are doing that this guys or men u have been having unstable relationship with dnt like.. Do u always try to please them, allow them have excesive sex with u? If yes try not to in your future relationship. D more u make them long for u, the better they find u more interesting to be with u. When a guy finds a lady so vacant to him, he looses dignity for her easily… Thanks wish u success in ur future affair.