I am currently going through the NYSC in Benue state, although I am a Yoruba guy from Ogun state. My family had earlier warned me not to bring a lady from that part of the country, but now I am in love with a girl from this place. What do I do?
I advise you to really think about what you want. If you think she is the one you truly love and wants to marry, I think your relatives would respect that, considering the fact that you are even a man. Y. our folks might have more influence on your decision in who you choose to marry if you are a lady. I am not advising you to disobey your parents, but then you should think about what you really want and the impact of your decision on your future.
All the best,