My Affair With Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Of COZA – Ese Walter

Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo
Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo

Christians who are heavenly conscious will not be surprised at the recent happenings in the Church. It will only remind them of one thing; the end is here. Signs of the end time is all around us and only a blind Christian will get carried away by the criticism or blame game that has resulted from recent misdemeanor of men of God.

Her name is Ese Walter and according to her, the Senior Pastor of the Commonwealth of Zion Assembly, COZA abused her, took advantage of her naivety while they had an illicit affair.

This is not the first time news about the hidden lives of men of God will become public knowledge, but this will strike a nerve in many who read this.

COZA started in Ilorin, Kwara State and no one who schooled at University of Ilorin would forget the impact the church had on students. As much as people criticised the church for not upholding modesty where it concerns dressing of its members, there was always a brighter side to it, like we say then; a lot of youths who wouldn’t go to church on a good day found a place they could identify with and some changed for the better.

The venue for services was Kwara Hotels in Ilorin before the church moved to a more suitable place at Wonderland gardens.

The church membership grew exponentially and a lot of people left the ‘happening’ church in Ilorin then, Rhema Chapel for COZA. I was one of those who left…my reasons are a topic for another day.

As the church expanded in membership, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo saw the need to leave Ilorin ‘to win more souls for Christ in the nation’s capital’ COZA started in Abuja, and there was Ese Walter, a lady who went to church to know more about Christ but, according to her got more than she bargained for.

Although she wrote in her story that she has a 58-minute recording of her discussion with one of the church’s pastors in Lagos, but until I verify her claims, I have no reasons to believe Ese. I do not have any reasons to doubt her also. It is written in the Holy Bible that “the Lord knows those who are His”.

Read Ese’s story below, but let wisdom guide you.

I want to talk about something I have kept bottled up inside for longer than necessary. I have also decided to use real names, as my defense for any accusation of slander is justification. I tell the truth, the whole truth and nothing but. However, feel free to throw your doubt around but know that I am past the shaming game (where victims of abuse are shot down by blame) I am no longer a victim but a survivor who is sharing her experience to help others caught in same web of abuse, guilt and shame. We only get to live once right? So here, it goes…

I recently came to know this event too was abuse (recently here means about 6 months ago). It has literally been eating me up having to drive by another billboard advertising preachers, or hearing his name, or even trying to ask about the validity of the entire salvation story and whether or not there is a God that truly watches over his people. That being said, I’m just going to say it as it is. This is a recap of my affair with Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo of COZA (Common Wealth Of Zion Assembly) Abuja chapter. This affair I have come to know as a form of abuse as you would see the different elements of abuse very present.

I met Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo many years ago. I was getting bored of the church I was attending and someone suggested COZA. At the time, I had never heard about it. My friend said, go there, I’m sure you would enjoy the word. But he also gave me a strong warning. He said he would advice that I remain a member only and not join the workforce. I agreed. The first time I attended COZA, I felt it was my church and decided I was going to plant my ass there. About eleven months had gone by and I was still attending the services quietly and faithfully. I really did like the church. One day a worker in the church approached me that the senior pastor wanted to see me.

Me? I thought. Why would the senior pastor want to see me? Not the second man but the head nigga in charge? Ok na! I started to think my sin was oozing so bad the pastor could tell I needed Jesus. (Poor old me.) I saw him at the end of the second service (they had two services at the time) and he said to me that he would like me to work with him. I knew I had no intentions of becoming a pastor so I had to ask in what capacity. He said he’d like for me to join a department, preferably the Pastoral Care Unit (PCU).

A few weeks later, against my friend’s advice not to join the workforce, I was a PCU member. All of a sudden, I had some status in church. I was ‘somebody.’ Dress had to be on point, hair, shoes and what not… As workers, we were literally trying to outshine each other or so it seemed. Anyways, I felt like I was a privileged member of an elite circle. Hehehe. (It did feel good though, for the most part.)

About a year after joining the workforce, I was on my way to London for a Masters degree program that would last two years. As was the rule for workers travelling, I wrote to say I would be away for 2 years and Pastor Biodun Fotoyinbo asked that I keep in touch by sending him my number and email when I had settled in London so he “makes sure I continue in the faith” because according to him, people loose their faith when they leave home and he wanted to make sure I didn’t. So, on that note, as soon as I got a phone line in London, I was sure to call ‘my pastor’ to say I arrived safe, had settled in and also gave my phone number. 

We had spoken a few times especially when COZA started to stream online. I always watched and would give feedback on quality of production and share a little bit on the challenges I faced settling in a new land. One evening, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo called me that he was coming to London and needed me to help him make some hotel bookings as the person who was meant to do it couldn’t get it done (this was rather strange as I had never been involved in his travel itinerary) Later that day, he said it had been sorted and my help would not be required but that he would like me to arrange a cab to pick him up from Heathrow. I was happy to help my pastor from Nigeria and even saw it as a privilege. (I would later come to learn that all of this was a calculated attempt to hatch a plan that I suspect was set in motion when I was asked to join the workforce.)

The cab guy was there to get him the next day and when he arrived, he called to ask why I didn’t accompany the cab to pick him up (again, this was strange but I stopped my mind from overanalyzing the situation as I knew I had no business with his visit to London) About two hours later, he called me and said he would like to see me. When I arrived his hotel, I called from the reception but he asked that I come upstairs. I got to the room and tried to stop my mind from thinking why I was going to his room. As he opened the door and invited me in, I had to speak to my heart to stop its palpitations. My better judgment asked me not to go into the room but the kind of reverence I had for Pasotr Biodun Fatoyinbo bordered on fear and I steeped into that room. 

“Care for a drink?” Asked Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo.

“No sir,” I said.

“You don’t have to be shy Ese, even if it’s alcohol, feel free and order what you want.” I wasn’t sure I heard my pastor asking me to order alcohol. I imagined it was a test and ignored the voice inside that was saying, “I’d have henny and coke please.” He proceeded to ask how I had been coping in London and if I was a committed member of any church. He also said he thought there was something special about me and wanted to know that I had not strayed from my faith. I really thought he had heard I was doing something I shouldn’t while in London but tried my best to focus on the conversation instead of my straying thoughts. He kept telling me to relax and feel comfortable with talking to him. After a few minutes, he asked that we go to the roof of the hotel as his room was a pent suite and had a connecting door to the roof.

While there, he sat on a reclining chair and asked me to come sit on his laps. This was a bit awkward for me and I froze for a moment as I asked why. He said he had told me to feel free with him and loosen up. I found myself strolling to sit on his laps. At that moment, I felt like a little girl who was experiencing something her mind couldn’t fathom. He asked me to kiss him and all I could think about was seeing him preach on the pulpit back in COZA Abuja, Nigeria, which was my home church. He again said ‘feel free Ese.’ And asked again, that I kiss him.

A few hours later, let’s just say, we were rolling under the sheets. It felt as though my mind had paused. I am not saying I was jazzed, (although it’s possible I was in some trancelike state and didn’t know it but I just was so afraid that I couldn’t say or think otherwise.) That was the beginning of this affair. A sexual affair that went on for a little over a week, DAILY!

I can hear somebody’s mind thinking, ‘well, you weren’t raped.” And I remember a pastor I opened up to when I couldn’t take all the mind games asking if I seduced him. No, I didn’t seduce him and no, I wasn’t raped but I felt trapped in this affair. Come to think of it, how could I have seduced him when I wanted nothing from him? I mean, I was too busy minding my business in London trying to get through with my masters program and I was overly comfortable. And even if I wanted to seduce anyone, it wouldn’t be a married man, not to mention a married pastor.  

What I couldn’t reconcile the whole time, was how the same person who preached against the very things we were doing (i.e drinking in pubs, fornicating, committing adultery) was the same person endorsing and encouraging it.

At some point, I got really confused about what Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo and I were doing that I had to ask how he handles it. I will never forget what he said to me. He said and I quote, “I will teach you a level of grace that you don’t understand.” My mind couldn’t fathom that somehow grace was enough covering for not just fornication on my path, adultery on his path and the many lies that was bound to follow what we were doing that was clearly abominable. I somehow dealt with the thoughts and fears that followed on my path. He had said to me that he wanted me to be his girlfriend and he would take me around the world and spoil me with money and things. Somehow, money had never been one of the things that motivated me (I am from a home where all my needs have been adequately met) In all my ‘badness’ through finding myself, I never did things I did for money but more of rebellion against rules and authority.

Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo also said to me that he had a dream where I exposed what was happening to the media. Said it was all over the place and that people were calling me the girl that caused chaos in COZA. He also said I should remember the bible said to “touch not God’s anointed.” I immediately started to rebuke the devil and said I could never do anything like that. I was almost swearing with my entire family as I thought really I had touched God’s anointed by submitting my body to be used. Little did I know at the time that all of these were ways to mess with my mind and even manipulate my thoughts.

Fast-forward a few months later, I was back in Nigeria and my church had become uncomfortable. Anytime I sat in church and listened to Pastor Biodun preach, I felt shame. I finally sent him a message saying I wasn’t comfortable anymore. I was confused and needed to talk about what had happened. He said I should meet him to talk and I did. It was a really weird meeting for me especially when he tried to kiss me at our meeting. I finally realized at this point that he couldn’t help me. I thought God was angry with me and I couldn’t pray so I decided to withdraw completely from COZA. This was the beginning of my mental torture. I couldn’t talk to my family because already, I was the only one attending a different church and somehow my mom never liked the idea. As the days went by I tried to use drinking and smoking to cover up the deep shame and guilt I was battling with. But as soon as the high was over, the thoughts came back and I felt stuck like I couldn’t move forward.

I felt I had to talk to someone and I decided to speak to my then good friend, Ernest Akale but unfortunately for me, Mr. Ernest did not have the capacity to hold what I said to him. He broke down completely the days that followed and I found myself having to pause how I was feeling and what I was struggling with to help my friend be strong. After a while, he withdrew from not just me but his then fiancé and friends. I had to then tell the fiancé what had caused it (she suspected we were having an affair so I had to clear the air) To my surprise she was a lot stronger than her man and told me to suck it up (I’m paraphrasing). She said if she were me, she wouldn’t leave the church but stay to torment Pastor Biodun and collect money from him. Ok! That sounded extreme for me, as my intention was not to blackmail but to heal my broken self. Anyways, I finally found the courage to speak to my then unit head who said he was going to talk to Pastor Biodun but didn’t have the liver to do so. Before long, the story was spreading and naturally getting twisted.

I went to a new church and it seemed like the COZA bug had chased me there. The pastor would always refer to COZA as some example and each time that was done, it seemed like a spear was thrust through my chest. One day, I broke down in the service and started crying uncontrollably, as I couldn’t take another mention of COZA and the pictures it painted in my head.

Very long, boring story cut short, for the last 5 months I gave the whole church thing a big space and break. I wasn’t sure I believed in God. I wasn’t sure I understood what it meant when people said ‘Jesus saves” and I definitely wasn’t sure how to deal with the mental torture that was affecting not just me but my relationships with family and friends. I was very unstable, fearful and worst of all guilty.

I got a chance to talk to Pastor Folarin of COZA Lagos Chapter, popularly called Pastor flo about everything. I made an effort to reach out to him because I realized the right thing to do was talk to an elder in the church and seek some sort of remedy to a wrong I believed had been done me. Instead, Pastor Flo said, Pastor Biodun had confessed to him and they had ‘talked’ about it and somehow that was supposed to be Ok. He asked what it was I wanted coming to talk to him about it when I did, I told him I realized what happened between Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo and I was wrong and not just that I felt abused and manipulated. I also said I thought it was wrong for Pastor Biodun to go on preaching without taking time to deal with his personal character flaws. I said I thought he was danger to all the young women that attended the church.

Come to think of it, maybe he meant if I wanted something monetary or material (as someone had suggested when I opened up to her) but the truth is, I never wanted his money (or is it the church member’s money.) All I wanted was to meet with him and have him accept that he misled me, betrayed his wife and the church he pastors. I wasn’t the only lady in COZA who had been a victim of his s*xcapades and manipulative patterns but I was the one who could come back after months of struggle with not just my faith but also my affair with him. And I wanted to set things right. I wanted to talk to Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo maybe for closure and I felt like I needed an apology because he played the “touch not my anointed” card to keep me locked in guilt, shame and fear when all along it was a calculated plan and I dare say, it started when he asked me to join the workforce.

Not to mention the audacity to talk about teaching me a level of grace I didn’t understand. I had no intention of understanding a grace that would permit me to go on doing things that were wrong and what’s worse having to carry the burden for almost a year.

Different surprising advises came up in the weeks that followed the rumour making rounds. I was told to hush because Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo had been a cultist in the past and could send people to shut me up. All my so-called friends in COZA withdrew from me and treated me like I had the plague. What was worse was Pastor Flo finally saw my then pastor to ‘talk’ about what had happened with Pastor Biodun and lied that it happened once and was a mistake.

My question then became, ‘do these people even care how broken I had become?’ ’do they care about the emotional and spiritual welfare of the people they were pastoring?’ The sad answer was NO. Most of us old members of COZA kept leaving but they couldn’t care less. What was important was to keep growing the church and having more and more cars with stickers that read “More than enough.”  Back then, I always felt horrible when I saw another car drive past me with the sticker.

I was breaking, I was struggling but no one could help. All they could do was ask me to hide so Pastor Biodun’s goons don’t hurt me. And then the interesting one was if I had evidence to prove my claim. Let me just say here that, it isn’t a claim, it’s a confession to free me from all of the guilt and shame I have had to live with for no reason at all. (That being said, I have evidence to prove all I have said here, the latest being a 58 minutes recording of my meeting with Pastor Flo a few months back)

This is my confession and I cannot begin to describe how much weight has been lifted off of my shoulders just pouring the truth out about what went down. So, to all my ex COZA friends gossiping about me, get your facts right. To those who said they’d help me deal with the pain but didn’t, I forgive you, I have learnt how to deal with it and I am doing just fine. To those who fear for my safety saying Pastor Biodun would send people to shut me up, I really have gone past fearing for my life. To live is gain and to die is Christ (or how does Paul say it again?) And to the only person who ever supported me through it all, thank you, I am learning to be brave. Please don’t think I am perfect in all of this but in line with living my authentic life and putting all forms of abuse behind me, this is where I press the stop button and stop the bleeding. This is where I break the silence and call the church to stand up for what it has been commissioned to do. If you will not enter the Kingdom, please don’t stop others who are trying to enter.

I still remember when I used to nurse the idea of digging up emails, text messages, hotel billings (as once I used my card to pay for his room when his master card failed to work) to prove there was an affair. It was pathetic. Why for the love of heaven was I trying to dig up evidence? I am satisfied setting the record straight. I am ready for any shaming or bashing that would follow because the truth is, because of what I have suffered and come through, I am really not moved by what people say or think about me anymore. I am a stronger woman and a damn abuse survivor seeking to connect with other victims of abuse to show them how to deal with the shame, hurt and guilt and how to come out stronger. Turning their mess into their message.

I am Ese Walter and I have gone through all forms of abuse from family, boyfriends, my ex pastor and some strangers not to break me, but so I stand and so I qualify to help victims. My scars have qualified me and when all is said and done, I will still be standing. I AM WOMAN, I BEND, I DON’T BREAK!

culled from Ese’s Blog


  1. Ese Walter or wateva ur name is,now dat u have published dis kind of slanderous tin about a man of God wat have u gained?…don’t 4get dat d bible makes it clear dat we shld touch not God’s annointed and do his prophet no harm.. u better go and pray 4 God’s forgivness

    • I’m not saying all she said is right oh,but wait, even the bible contains records of failings of persons who loved God: David in 2Samuel 11, Moses in Numbers 20,Peter in Matthew 26:69-75 and the list can go on and on.Some of these even wrote about their own sins,others were penned down by others:that’s one the features that proves the bibles inspiration,so disclosing the wrongdoings of a “man of God” shouldn’t be chalked under a “touch not my annointed” action-only God alone is Holy.

    • Ofure, why are you one sided in your comment? This shows you are in support of what the pastor did to the lady if it is true. May God save us from Dogmatic christianity.

  2. Ofure you are very stupid. So Gods anointented is allowed to be travelling round the world pressing breast & chopping small babes abi? Mugu.

    The truth will always set one free, if it’s the truth she has spoken then she is indeed free. It’s your enjoyment pastor who should be worried.

  3. Chike I really don’t see y I shld be insulted..I’m sorry if my post offended u but we shld also consider d fact dat it could also be faulse….he’s not even my pastor……well like u sed,d truth shall set us free…and if that’s wat she has spoken,let her be free

  4. Ofure I’m sure ur a pastor who has indulged in this kind of act plenty of times, deceiving pple by telling them touch not my annointed, touch not my annointed my ass, are you saying pple shld not say the truth because it concerns pators??? Pls d girl said what happen to her because she felt the need 2 say her story and free her mind, I hope her write up will encourage other victims to come out and tell the world their own story of this biodun man or other so called annointed pastors.

  5. Hahahahaha….Shaka I’m not a pastor oh!…..I’m just a yung gal who feels we shld put certain tins in2 consideration b4 we conclude….

  6. *takes a deep sigh* Honestly, I see two sides to this story and I’ll be very concise as possible. One part tells me this could be nothing but hoax. My reason is that the lady said when she left COZA, she went to a church where the pastor openly attacked COZA. *another sigh* As we all know except we want to deny, I’m yet to come across any church pastor that will openly criticise a church (mentioning the name for that matter) Fine! Churches are criticised but they are done through allusions. I quote her “…as I couldn’t take another mention of COZA” Well, I’m glad churches now make recordings of their sunday services. To make us all believe this story, the lady should get a recording of just one sunday (@ least she said the pastor refered to COZA so many times) and make it available.

    The other part is the fact that she mentioned she has a recording with pastor FLO. Well sounds convincing but I must say, we still have to be careful. Anyone could act as pastor FLO and make a recording with this lady. However, she could still go a long way to dig out the truth. I’m glad the world is so advanced that we have devices that detects voices of humans.

    This is a very sensitive issue. Let’s be careful about the way we talk about it.

  7. Ofure u need serious help, instead of you to pray for God to guide u right u are there busy talking about anointed man of God. Even d devil wud come and say he is anointed and u wud accept! I wonder what this world of christianity is turning into!

  8. Jst follow d ines of this confession without religious bias, u’ll notice dat this isn’t rape! Its a mutual agreement! Firstly, nobody said a pastor is immune from sexual errors! She walked herself into d pastors hotel oomcontinued sex with him for ova a period! Why did she accept? Why did she keep silent all d while? And to what purpose is she posting this? Wasn’t she aware he was married? THis lady shld go and sleep and stop trying to sound a victim of abuse! The pst is married and will always return to his wife! This is her pain nd nothing else!

  9. She’s rebellious! Why did u allow him to hv fun with u & after feels guilty as if he raped u? U sounds as if he dumped u! Am not siding him but ur story is not the real content of the drama! U need to be psychoanalised!

  10. Ofure u need serious help, instead of you to pray for God to guide u right u are there busy talking about anointed man of God. Even d devil wud come and say he is anointed and u wud accept! I wonder what this world of christianity is turning into!!

  11. Long story short. The whole incident sounds like a bad nollywood movie. The story might be true or false. Who cares? We’ll all be judged by GOD eventually. But to Ese. Coming out with this story after so long for some “spiritual or emotional relieve” sounds pretty lame. You should have just stuck with drinking and smoking. That ought to work sooner or later.
    I’m not one for “touch not my Prophet” and stuffs like that. If the story is true, it is wrong. And the Pastor should be removed. But Ese actually saying the Pastor Fatoyinbo travelled all the way to London to have sex with her sounds pretty incredble and unbelievable. Haba is she that hot? Or she be Queen Sheba? The whole thing sounds like a cheap publicity stunt fabricated by Ese and her high level of imagination. But if it is true, well GOD will judge and if it isn’t. She should come up with a better story. Why not just say the Pastor raped her instead. That ought to spice up the story. If she really wants her story to be believed. Let her come up with hard evidence eg Hotel reciept, text messages anything tangible. Ese claims she isn’t out to prove her claim. But what is sharing it with the public gonna achieve if she isn’t going to be believed. I must say,she isn’t that smart, from my own perception.
    I’ve seen and heard Pastors who do worse than this. But personally, I don’t believe her. To me her story sounds lame and fictitious. If she made it all up, she should fabricate and come up with something much more interesting:like getting abducted by Aliens and anally voilated. That ought to make a more interesting reading than this crap she fed us. And if it is true, it sucks, really sucks of “our men of GOD”

  12. Did d pastor force u @ Ese walter? U weren’t expecting it but u went there continually for a whole week, you even paid d hotel bills once meaning you enjoyed the sex you both had, if you think sharing your problems on social media would solve it, u r just wasting your time and besides maybe d pastor came to realise his sins and d trap he fell into and started ignoring you dats y you went about telling stories which is not all true to get back @ him, my dear if you like go to CNN as loing as God has forgiven him your opinion is inconsequential… Its girls like you dat go about seducing pastor thinking he shud be able to resist u forgetting he’s human; all d while this happend if you were genuiue why didn’t you report to the wife…

  13. The story is patently false. I knew it the moment she mentioned that her friend warned her against joining COZA‘s workforce. Come to think of it. Did her friend know that “things“ were going on in the church? Apparently, Ese wants us to believe that. In that case, WHY did that same friend recommend COZA to her? And why did she not ask the reason she should not join the workforce? The whole story reminds me of those dumb Yoruba movies. Between: I am a Muslim, and I have no affiliation with any church or pastor.

  14. I don’t see how this story/confession sounds incredible or fabricated. The lady in question doesn’t need to present any evidence to be believed. She is not before any court of law. Saying this, I think this lady is consumed by self pity over what she consciously allowed herself to walk into. She does not know the difference between being ABUSED and giving CONSENT. She clearly was not abused by the Pastor, according to her narrative. She is a full mature adult, well articulating in thoughts to know what she wanted. She did mention that thoughts of caution came to her severally which she ignored. I believe she was sexually attracted to the pastor and willing and severally slept with him. Its very normal, at some point in our misdemeanors to be jolted back to reality and feel guilty over indescretions. At this point we become restless, especially if we have had very close relationship/fellowship with God. We begin to look for purgative measures to free ourselves from the emotional and mental torture. If we don’t take care, we lay blames on all but ourselves for what we did and feel ‘victim of manipulations’.

    For the Pastor, I don’t have much to say. Suffice it to say that the shepherd is meant to protect the flock from wolves. This time the shepherd has turned round to team with the wolf to devour the flock. Its terribly sad. A Pastor wey dey behave like gud-time guy na suegbe!

  15. Commenters please don’t rush to judge the lady neither pastor Fatoyinbo instead let’s pray for God’s mercy for them. If the story is truth, I want you to know that nobody is above falling into temptation or sin because there is no superhuman, let’s just pray for them instead of crucifying them. LET HIM WITHOUT SIN CAST THE FIRST STONE. Here I stopped, thanks and God bless.

  16. If the lady’s story is true, in as much as I’ll blame her for playing the “easy ride” card, I’ll heap much of those blames on the Pastor’s head. I believe and I know that God’s anointed are supposed to lead the blind (afterall they that are whole need not a physician but they that are sick. Matt 9:12). The lady went to church not because she was righteous but as a sinner who needed repentance. So God’s anointed are supposed to act what they preach, and not be like the Scribes and Pharisees who only worship God with their lips and not their heart. The bible says they’re blind leaders of the blind. And if the blind lead the blind, both shall fall into the ditch–Matt 15:14. So the pastor owes God a lot and if he doesn’t confess just like the lady did he won’t be free. “But woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! because you shut the kingdom of heaven against men; for you neither enter yourselves, nor allow those who would enter to go in.” (Matthew 23:13

  17. Hebrews 9:27 -It is appointed unto men once to die,but after this the judgement.Despite the lust between you two,God had mercy on you .Mercy is only present on earth.Think of what would have happened if death came unannounced.U both made a mistake.Forgive and move on.May God heal your wounds and pain and al this wil surely pass or fade with time.Who is perfect,nobody!We continually ask for grace from God almighty.The heavenly race is tough.Fornication and adultery are not the worst sins.Sin is sin be it hatred,stealing,murder,bitterness,backbiting etc.Dear Ese,God spoke to you through your conscience before the act but you were not sensitive to His voice.Forgive yourself and draw closer to God.Dear Pastor Biodun(Coza Pastor) ask God for deliverance from lust and make ammends.God has given u a powerful enviable ministry that wil make the devil(not Ese) pull u down to hell fire through carnal desires.I wil strongly advise u to not counsel the opposite sex alone.Bro Ernest,you knew as if something wil happen-an impending doom,that is why you did not want Ese to be a worker.Pls develop ur revelation and prohetic ministry.Forgive also.To the Wife of Pst Biodun.Continally pray for your Husband and forgive,dont allow hatred set in.To err is human,to forgive is divine.U. All have been disgraced enough and the devil is happy,Dont make him happier by continuing in sin and going to hell.God help us all in Jesus name.God loves u,God bless.

  18. omo,leave her alone joor,ESE you are very right……what manner of man is dis,thank Gdo av left COZA he is even a gay ,,,shun his pretence,jare,we all have our story with biodun…….shun all d grace shit…he is evil


  20. people are just funny, strength to break out of what???….talking like she was raped, even when someone has a boy friend in a normal relationship and it breaks up they also need the strength to break out of the whole thing, like we should pity her that fucked a married pastor for 1 week, different positions and obviously recieved some cash unless she wants to call us stupid by saying she just got fucked and took the bus home without any financial benefits,did you guys use a condom??? did you suck his penis?? when he released did he cum inside your mouth, put it on your face, came inside you or just left it on your stomach??? since you want to reveal it all do it properly and tell everything, abeg this no be story una no get another interesting gist?? So what do you want people to do?? Stop going to church?? his sins doesnt make God unreal, you seem bitter because u were dumped. No more cash flow.

    (Part2) I feel no pity for the girl at all, not one bit, you fucked him willingly knowing he was a pastor and married, his a good looking guy with cash, should I say tall rich and handsome which many girls will love, you gave him different styles and not just once, you probably even moaned “I Love you” while he gave in to you from behind and collected some cash while leaving the room, if it happened once it was a mistake but it did happen more than once from your story so it was a calculated attempt to fuck this man and now because the money has stopped coming in and maybe another fine hot lady has benched you u have come with another calculated attempt to pull him down, its like the famous eve and the apple….Did you guys use a condom?????? you never said. please talk to me at ([email protected]) i would like to know more maybe arrange to put you on BBC news, did you give him blowjob or in plain English did you suck his penis? If you have to reveal all do it properly not half and half, never ever think pastors are inhuman they fall to sin, they are of blood and flesh and are called “men of God” not “spirit of God” so anyone of the opinion that the pastor should be condemned does not know the bible, no man alive is perfect and I repeat NO MAN is, even the biggest names you hear have all sinned as dont be misled. have a nice sunday sister ese.

  21. When i read some comments above, attacking the lady and justifying or defending the pastor, i feel ashamed of the kind of Churches and members we have now!!! Pastor W.F. Kumuyi publicly offered himself to be disciplined because his own son his bride did not keep to the rules and laid down standard of Deeper Life’s dressing during their wedding in Jamaica!!! Many great men of God in this country and outside have stepped aside from the pulpit, repented, disciplined and restored by their mentors and greater men of God or fathers in the faith before preaching again!!! That way, the gained their ministry and credibility back. They also won the trust of their members and public back and even God approved them!!!
    As pastors, the bible said we should live above standard and be an example to the believers!!! Does pastor Abiodun have a mentor or a spiritual father? Is he above correction and Bible discipline? Does he at all considers his actions as sinful, a weakness he has to handle or is it a lifestyle? If itbis a lifestyle, then he should quit and do something else or stop calling COZA a church and call COZA MEGA CLUB!!!!
    Thank for you, Ese. Am happy to hear that you are restored back to faith in Christ after the confession. Forgive the pastor, join a Church where you can serve God and go to heaven!!! Stop looking for “COZY” Churches with “cozy” pastors where they petmit, excuse and condone sin!!!!

  22. Both of them are at FAULT…when i was a Teenager, i fought & save myself five times,from being Rape/Sexual Harrassment, by screaming loud the name of Jesus. From school, up to NYSC, i fought several Rape attempts. Out of these men, 3 of them are great men of God, one of them was even forcing me to drink a five alive but i refused,for my mind didnt allow me, not knowing that he drugged it. Immediately he naked himself & torn my clothes but he never succeed,but d pastor later confessed drugging d drinks & water. All of these Rapist torn my Clothes but never succeeds. WHY? Because,i Called on the name of Jesus. Anytime you scream Jesus name in times of trouble, whether the Rapist use Juju to cover your face,it will clear.
    My advice to Sis. Ese is to get close to God,because in her case,the Pastor didnt force her.And to the Pastor,Repent or you face God himself. And to ladies out there,please do your work in the church without getting too close to the Pastors…

  23. The pastor should not in anywhere liken his case with that of Joseph the eleventh son of the patriarch (Jacob) of Christian faith. He should not by any standard compare himself with Issac either.

    Joseph did not keep mute of the allegation leveled against by Portiphar’s wife. He discussed it with his master, though he was not believed. In the prison, he talked about it with the inmates.

    Isaac did not make any attempt to deny his mischieve but in honesty and with fear of God owned it up with soberness.

    David make no excuse to justiful his sin but confessed it and moved forward.

    Why would Pst Biodun not discuss these allegations openly his congregation like his predecessors who had ran this race before him did. Why will he not toll the biblical example as a professor of the faith he holds high allegiance to. I hope pastor is not hiding any skeleton anywhere. I hope you truly love your beloved wife as not to betray her and the congragation

    I fear for you pastor. I want to believe you are not like one of the biblical shepherds who feed fat on the flocks entrusted into their hand. May I remind everyone of us, the white judgement seat of God is not all illusion. The three of you knows who is not tell the truth, but may I remind us again, the truth can be hidden from the eyes of men but not from God.

  24. Are you a lady worker in the church, remember, you are serving God and not the Pastor, so you can actually do your work go home without being close to the pastor. Do not look up to the pastor either as a role model or depend on him for any material assistance. God remains our source. Do not forget your pastor is human and so is still susceptible to human flaws.

    Pastors’ wives, you have a duty over the life and ministry of His anointed; his calling is your calling, his appointments are your appointments, stop exposing him to danger, attend the meetings together go home together, meet the appointments together, there cannot be anything more important to you than seeing him succeeding in his calling. Do not forget, his failure is your failure, except if you are an agent sent to destroy him and his work.

    The devil is still walking to and fro the earth to destroy the work of God as it has been from the beginning.

    May God give us His Grace as we continue to propagate the gospel of salvation in accordance with the precepts laid down for us by our Lord and Saviour, Jesus Christ. IJN

  25. Ese, if dis story is true, u hv sinned greatly. Ask God 4 4giveness and stop justifying ur actions by laying all d blame on d pastor. D pastor shares d blame wit u cos u re not a baby. A masters student cant be so naive to be used dis cheaply. Pastors are humans too, with every tendency of being tempted, dats y we shld always pray 4 our pastors 4 grace to be always true 2 their calling. A warning to her female church workers who jump around their pastors like he is impotent. Stop flunting urself around pastors bcos u feel they are Saints, like u, they are also struggling with evil desires, which is in all humans, help them to help u. Its mostly seen among females bcos most ladies work in church to be noticed and not 4 God. If u re a christian in d house, u shld be praying 4 pastors, not rejoicing over such stories, its a minus not a plus to our faith

  26. I can’t believe dat all words dat Eze spoke against dis man of God r truth and i can’t judge any of them. Let me leave d judgement to God almighty.


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