There was this guy that I was dating before I met my husband. Later, we met again, I started working for him, but told him that I am married as he told me he is still interested in me. He said he would not leave me alone; I rejected his offer of a relationship and even introduced him to my husband. My husband thought that we are dating. After some months, my husby and I quarreled and he said he is not interested in the marriage again. I am not dating my ex. Please, what do I do?
I really understand why your husband is upset. This your ex is bent on getting you back as he stated, not minding the fact that you are married, which means he does not respect you or your marriage. If you want to save your marriage from falling apart, if you want your husband to understand that you are not dating him, you SHOULD QUIT working for him. This is because he is your ex, and closeness to him would affect your relationship with your husband. An ex should remain an ex and your past….. Therefore, quit working for him and avoid the temptation that might arise from such. Tell your husband you value your marriage to him and that he is the best thing that happened to you, and that you are willing to let go of that job….just for him. Your ex definitely is a dangerous person, I don’t understand why he would not let you be, I am sure you are not the only lady he is making such advances to…therefore, be wise and make a good decision. Love is about sacrifice…… let go of the job and look for another one.
All the best,