[Advice Needed] I Am Scared To Tell Him I Am Older Than Him. What Should I Do?

frightened galDear Tee,
I have been in a relationship for more than a year now. When we started the relationship, I was not really sure about my age. This is because my parents can’t remember when my date of birth, so I chose a birthday for myself. Now, I have discovered that I am a year older than him and I don’t know how to tell him about it. I am scared he might end up quitting the relationship if he finds out. I love him so much and I don’t want to lose him. Please, help me.

Dear TT,
I think you should let him know about the age difference. I don’t think he is going to raise an eye brow concerning that….if he truly loves you. Age is just a number when two individuals are in love, and one year is not a big difference. I think you should just have a discussion with him and don’t get uncomfortable or scared when talking to him about it. You might just be having a good time gisting and then you can just bring it up. I don’t think it should break up the relationship.
Wish you well,


  1. TT, don’t try to tell the cock and bull story that you don’t know your age in this modern age.
    Only liars will do that!
    I strongly believe that you know about the age difference from the beginning of the relationship but you don’t know how to handle it.
    Anyways, like Tee advised, age is but a number; but please don’t say it out again!!


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