I am 24 years old and I have been dating my girl who is 19 years for 3 years. I used to trust her until I found out that she was double dating. I never cheated on her because I intend to marry her. Although, different ladies want date me, I never gave them a face just because of the love I have for her. I talked to her about her attitude and she told me she has stopped dating the other guy. But, I cannot just trust her and I still feel that she is doing it. What should I do?
I understand that it is hard to trust again after one has been betrayed. But then, a relationship without trust is not worth it, and as someone said, it is like a phone with no service, which you play games with. If you really want to make the relationship work, I think you should give her a second chance; everyone deserves a second chance as I always say. Since she told you she is done with such attitude, you should learn to trust her again, it is not going to be easy after what she did, and you should also let her know that you are going to believe in the relationship again. If then, messes up, you are free to walk away from the relationship.
All the best,