[Advice Needed] I Regret That I Deflowered Her. What Should I Do?

frustratedDear Tee,
We have been dating for almost 2 years now. I am 26 years old and she is 24. Yeah, we have romances, but we avoided the sex, but recently we had sex. It’s not that I forced her, we just found ourselves in the act, and she was a virgin. She wept then I regretted my action. Please what do I do?
DF

Hello DF,
I do not appreciate that you had come a long way, only to make that mistake of having sex with each other. Well, the deed has been done. You guys would be tempted to have sex more with each other now….. and sex is not healthy before marriage, because as time goes on, you guys have a probability of getting tired of each other. I think you should try as much as possible t stay off sex. Forgive yourselves; you two should stop to live in regret. You only need to make up your mind to stop having sex. Determination is the key. Also, there are other things you two can do towards having a healthy and happy relationship. You can hang out and go places together rather than stay indoors all the time. Just ensure you make plans to avoid making mistakes all over.
All the best,
Tee.

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  1. Dear Tee,I am 24yrs and have been dating this guy going to two years now,we both loved eachother until I noticed that he’s cheating on me,but I still continue in the relationship even after he has beaten me twice.The most painful part of it is that he sent a message to me that he need to back off a bit from me which I don’t really understand,am now confused