I have been dating her for the past 3 years. Recently, she told me she missed her period and I suspect that she is pregnant. I want to marry her, but I don’t have the financial strength for such, I just finished school and I have not gone for service. I can’t take care of the baby, and she is not ready for an abortion. What do I do?
I think you have to take responsibility for your child. She is pregnant….the deed is done, don’t think of aborting the baby. Let the lady keep the pregnancy. Get something doing, a job that would fetch you money, no matter how small it is. But then, I also think she should go to a medical laboratory and do a pregnancy test, to confirm if she is pregnant or not. But if she is, take responsibility for the child.
All the best,