I am 22 years old and I am in my third year in school. I am in love with this guy who wants to marry me. We have never had sex in the relationship and we plan to do it when we get married. The problem is he wants to come and meet my parents, but I don’t know if my dad would allow me to get married now, since I am still in school. My mom knows about him, but my dad does not. I am scared, should I allow him to come and meet my parents?
I think you are still young and you should not rush into marriage. You still have 2 more years to spend in school….can you cope with your education and marriage at the same time? Think about this! I believe your man would wait for you to complete your education if you talk to him about it. You don’t want to start struggling with your academics and trying to be a good wife at the same time…I believe you should take one step at a time. There is no crime in letting him visit your parents, but you guys can wait till when you are through with school and I believe your dad would not raise an eyebrow about you getting married then.
Wish you well,