I Am Not Ready To Father A Child And She Is Not Ready To Abort The Pregnancy. Please Help!!

images (2)Dear Tee,
I am a final year student of one of the best polytechnic in Nigeria. I am in love with a lady who has finished school. She has a degree and now she’s working. She’s pregnant for me and now I am that she should abort the pregnancy because I felt that I am not ready to father a child.
Although she has refused to undergo an abortion.. I know we don’t have that cash now to settle down; get our own house, do a formal introduction and get married. My fear now is I have a very lovely aunty who send me money and cloth from abroad and I am sure she will feel disappointed when she hears about this because she has been there always… Please what should I do?

P.
Dear P,
I understand that you are not financially stable right now to marry her, but then the solution to that is NOT abortion. Why do you want to risk the life of your girlfriend by telling her to go for an abortion? Why do you want to kill an innocent baby? This lady is working, she can at least support the baby for now, and you should support her in your own little way before you find a means to income. You are already in your final year, that should be an advantage. You would soon graduate and you can then start fending for your girl and kid. You also said that your aunt would feel disappointed….. yeah, she might…..but the deed is done already. Don’t tell me you want to risk the life of someone you claim to love because of what your aunt would feel about you. You should have thought about that earlier before having sex with your girl. Get a job immediately you leave school and become responsible for your woman and your kid. ABORTION IS A NO-NO!
TEE

10 COMMENTS

  1. Well my brother! It has already hapened. Dont ever try abortion or involve urself in abortion. That is d greatest mistake in life. Thank God d lady is a graduate & she is working. Both of u shud go into prayer (1) forgivness of sin. (2) God should use dat baby 2 open door for u & d lady. Just watch wat wil hapen. Let me tell u d truth, that lady is ur wife. So go 4 what belong 2 u. Forget beating about d bush. Both of u should embark on prayer & see how God wil provide d money u wil use 2 mary her. Go & mark it down 2day what I just told u. Many people has put themselves into problem of abortion & it has been a curse on dem 2day cos dey had involve themselves in abortion. So pls dont be afraid. Go for ur family.

  2. My dear brother, please erase the thought of abortion from your memory. I don’t think you want to be a muderer or do u? Please reason with Tee and you will see that life will be better for you and your to-be family very soon. Thank you!

  3. Tee so u don’t know earlier before dat u are still a student before having fun,if it was to be ur sis u would advise her to go for an abortion dear tee d best solution for u my dear broder is to kill ur self so as not to disappoint ur sister abroad idiot.

  4. I think you have inpregnated a stranger, dont a friend, because a friend will always be one’s wife, and a stranger would ever be a mistake, but the point is that if you love her at the frist pleace, you would never think of abortion, No matter the condition, just pray for God’s forgiveness, and he will turn your situations around.

  5. Broz,
    Diz d tym 2 prove urself a man n take a lasting decision dat u wnt live 2 regret in future. Tink of d dangers n guilt of abortion, Iz it wot u can live with?
    Tot u said u luv d lady? Luv can summount all challanges. Itz high tym u return 2 God in humility, 4saking ur evil wayz n pray 2 Him. Surely, 4rm Heaven He’ll hear ur cry n heal ur land.

  6. my dear brother do nt think of aborting dat child.every thing happen for good.u and your girl need 2 be prayerful and GOD will surprise u.d child is a blessing to you people.forget about wot people will say most especially ur aunty mark my word dey will cum and rejoice wit u in future.