What Bedroom Habit Ruins Marriage ?

masturinfo56463383When I told him I felt hurt and his behaviour damaged my self-esteem, he became verbally and physically aggressive, so I left him

I am a 28-year-old woman and I’ve been married to my 50-year-old husband for four years.At first he was kind and would do absolutely anything for me. However, when we moved in together cracks started to show.

He began to masturbáte in bed next to me or go downstairs to watch pornográphy and masturbáte.

When I told him I felt hurt and his behaviour damaged my self-esteem, he became verbally and physically aggressive, so I left him for a while.

He promised things would be different and they were – until we married.

Now he talks to me condescendingly and shows no respect. I feel we don’t have anything in common and can’t recall the last time we laughed.

I sleep on the sofa as I can’t bear feeling useless as he pleasures himself next to me. When we do make love, he tends to fantasise out loud about other people so I make excuses not to do it.

However, every now and then he is lovely and I see a glimpse of the man I met.

He has refused counselling and I don’t know what to do.

Will he ever change?