[Advice Needed] He Wants Me To Proof My Love With My Virginity, What Should I Do?

Dear Tee,
I am 16 years old and I am in love with a guy who is 23. He told me that he needs to break my virginity as a proof of my love to him. I really do love him, but I am scared to have sex. Please advise me.


Dear Anonymous,
I think that guy does not love you. Sex isn’t a proof of love. Once he has sex with you, he will continue to sleep with you and after that, he will dump you and get another young girl. Why don’t you concentrate on your studies for now? You still have a long time ahead of you, just concentrate on becoming a better person for now. Stop seeing him because he doesn’t have a good plan for you.
Wish you well,

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  • I thought u should follow what anonymous told u, if your boy friend loves u is not proper for him to be askin u sex, but i advise u to concentrate on ur studies.

  • At age of 16 do u suppose to have a boyfriend? Hmmmmmmm that’s nt necessary at all. U r too young for that. Just concentrate on ur studies!

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