[Advice Needed] She Said I Am Not The Father Of Our Two Children! Please Help!

images (8)Dear Tee,
I am married with two kids. My wife and I had some issues some months back which we didn’t really settle. We swept it under the carpet kind of. Last week, the issue came up again and out of anger my wife said that I am not the father of our two kids. I was surprised…. Yes, she got pregnant before I took her into my house and its not like we are officially married. I am yet to come out of the shock and we have been keeping malice since we had that issue. Please, what do I do?
Prince

Dear Prince,
I am sorry about the dilemma you are facing, I understand how surprised and hurt you are now. I think you should have a deep talk with her. Let her explain why you are not the father…. Do not sound harsh or resentful when asking…. Create a good environment for talk and let her open up to you. The funny thing is your wife might utter that sentence just to piss you off and make you get mad….but how would you know if you don’t talk to her? Communication is one of the best tool to solve marital issues.
Also, I think you should always solve issues in your marriage immediately, delay can be dangerous as it could to further disagreements.
All the best,
Tee.

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1 COMMENT

  1. with regard to the issue above, I expected you to advice him first to carry out DNA test on the children because , the world we are living in now is most things doesn’t seem the way they look. Talk won’t solve this kind of issue alone .