I am a 24 year old lady and I have been dating this guy for 3 years now. Yes, he has proposed to me, but the problem is that this guy can’t read and write well….he can’t even speak English fluently and he isn’t good in bed. Each time I tell him its over, he cries and begs me. Please, what should I do?
I think you should let him know the things that displease you about him. You should advise him on how to improve himself… He can take coaching classes or get educational materials that can help him improve on his diction. Also, I think you two should stop having sex for now…. Sex is better when it is waited for…. But then, he can learn to be better in bed from experienced people, say his friends. He could also get books to help him become better. However, the decision to stick with or leave him depends on you…but I believe it is better to fix some things than throw them away.
All the best,
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