[Advice Needed]. I Cheated On My Boyfriend And I Can’t Get This Other Guy Off My Head! Please Help!

I met my boyfriend in 2009 and it was like love at first sight, a lovey dovey relationship, we were the envy of most of our friends, we were so close that everyone around us felt we were gonna head for the altar very soon, but things didn’t turn around the way we expected. In 2011 I met this cute guy, by then I was having issues in my relationship, which was not an excuse, I tried all means to patch up my relationship, but my boyfriend wasn’t helping matters, every attempt to visit him and talk things out failed, he told me I couldn’t visit him because his new landlord doesn’t tolerate bachelors bringing girls home, that’s its a taboo and stuffs like that, he was staying in one village like that in Enugu for an 18 months job.

During this period, I cheated on my boyfriend with this cute guy I met, I felt so bad and I promised myself it would never happen again and I made it clear to the new guy. Although the new guy never gave up, he still was asking me for a relationship for several months, he told me has never felt a solid attention all his life.

After months of persistence, I later got to make up with my boyfriend, I quarreled with him to look for another apartment and move out since his landlord doesn’t entertain female visitors passing the night, he moved out 6 months to termination of his appointment.

Things continued smoothly with my boyfriend although we were having normal relationship ups and downs. I became friends with the other guy, we were talking on phone once in a while, I advised him to get a girlfriend and I was happy when he told me he met a girl in September 2012, at least he would get off my back. In 2013, I had this terrible quarrel with my boyfriend, for like 9 months we couldn’t patch things up. In the course of all these events, I fell back into the arms of other guy, it felt so good, he adored and cherished me, it was indeed a pleasurable moment never to forget. I later got back with my main guy in December 2013, I really love my boyfriend because we’ve been through rough and good times, and the road hasn’t been all rosy for us, he plans settling down with me next year. The problem is this other guy’s memories is stuck in my brain and whenever I’m with or without my boyfriend, I keep thinking about him, I really wanna get him out of my head, and the thing is he still believes we were meant to be together, how do I erase memories of him completely.

Deola.

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  1. Me & my boyfriend was planning to get married last month, just last week we had some argument that made him get angry on me just because of the argument, he said we will not be married again and the next day he left me and we broke up. I still loved him and I wanted him to marry me, for me to get him back i had no choice than to contacted dr.marnish@ yahoo. com to help me and he helped me to bring my lover back to me so we can continue our plan to be married. he came back after 3 days
    Shelley Dustin
    Spain