I have two ‘exes’ who want to come back into my life right now. I am 28 years old and I am ready to settle down…. But I am so confused right now. Two years back I was dating this first guy, but we broke up because he wouldn’t stop cheating on me, infact he impregnated another lady and she had to abort the baby. We broke up because he was a f**king cheat! Last year, I met this second guy whom I dated, this guy was caring, but he would beat the hell out of me whenever we have issues. I also broke up with him. Last month, the two of them started disturbing me that they have changed for good. I really want to pick one out of the two, but who would I pick…. The cheating ex or the ex who beats me up?