A woman identified as Patience Chilaekezie reportedly ended her life as well as her husband’s, Monday Chilaekezie, by setting their bodies and house on fire.
Chidinma, Monday’s younger sister’s accounts of events leading to the tragic end, indicate that Patience had carefully planned it all. According to her, Patience had been grieving that her husband of 12 years had decided to send her away. It was learnt that the couple had married for that long without children. As Chidinma said, her brother had made up his mind to bring in another woman within the community who was pregnant for him.
It was said that Patience, a petty trader, had lured her husband into their house, poured petrol on both of them and then set the house on fire. It was also said that while they and the house were burning, she held fast onto her husband to ensure that he did not escape the inferno.
Neighbours, who noticed the flame and heard the cry for help, were able to rescue the man who later died on his way to the hospital. Community members, who rushed to see Patience’s charred body when the fire had burnt out, was gripped by fear and horror.
Chidinma further explaiend that her brother was able to run out from the inferno alive but died 20 minutes later on the way as they were rushing him to hospital.
In tears, she recalled that on the day of the incident, being January 11, 2014, her brother, who was an automobile technician, had gone to his shop as he did every day. His wife, popularly known as Madam Oil, had also left the house for her shop at a local market. However, a few hours later, she came back to the house. She was said to have been seen with a keg that, in the instance, could be containing petrol, with which she later sprinkled round the house.
According to Chidinma: “She called my brother that there was an emergency and that he should rush back home. I was at home then, but in the next building. He was the one that told me that his wife just called that there is an emergency. While he was stepping into the house, I heard him call on his wife that he can perceive the smell of fuel all over the place. In less than one minute after he went inside the house, the house started to burn.
“I heard my brother screaming for help. I think by then he was struggling with his wife. We were able to reach them and my brother was brought out alive, while his wife was burnt beyond recognition. Shortly before he died, he told us that his wife had finally fulfilled her promise. My brother said that his wife was threatening that she would kill him and kill herself too.”
On a possible reason she could have done that, Chidinma said: “They had been married for years without any child. This has caused a lot of problem between the couple to the extent that my brother secretly married another wife. The woman gave birth to two girls and is pregnant now with the third child. When she finally discovered, she was devastated because she had severally pleaded with her husband to allow her adopt a child. The last family meeting we had, she was told to leave her husband’s house if she was not ready to accommodate another woman who had given her husband children. Since that day, she had been living a secluded life, most especially when the family made it clear that they would not accept a bastard as a child in the name of adoption. Nobody knew that she would get to this point of committing suicide.”
Also at the scene was the second wife who wept uncontrollably. “What kind of bad luck is this? Who is going to take care of my children and me? He promised to drive the other woman, so that we can have peace in this house. It is nobody’s fault that God did not give her a child,” the unfortunate woman lamented.
Imo State Police Command Public Relations Officer, DSP Jane Elemoko, confirmed the incident.
Source: The Sun
So d woman is lamenting, after destroying dat home, now she want to reap where she did not sow, abeg make she go sidon for one place, oye make she marry d man, make we see, stupid woaman
Finally,there is peace,go and enjoy your marriage…#rubbish# God is the giver of children what matter’s most is happiness.after all some children are headache to their parents
May God take control of those marriages that are experiencing such. It is usually the husband’s family that would always want to decide for the couple. This isn’t fair. God gives children. The man was also stupid and gullible. Why did he allow his family to take control of his marriage. No one wishes that his sister or daughter should go through such .I can imagine the pain she must have felt. E no easy o, when your parent-inlaws make it verbal that you should leave there son’s house so he can take another woman. I have been made to understand that too, through their actions. It really hurts especially when he married you as a virgin. Honestly, if you kept yourself till your wedding night and was not wayward as a girl with no medical issues too before marriage, the pain will slice through your heart. your inlaws will always pick on you.
. What do they want you to do? Are they God? Still , it does not mean you should commit suicide. You must be strong(with faith) to stand firm. You also need support from your own family to keep you going . Thank God for modern medicine. Perhaps, if your husband is very understanding, you will both overcome these obstacles.(Especially when he keeps his family at bay).I pray that God fights for the helpless women and give us all the fruits of the womb,amen.