‘How T.B. Joshua Took My Wife’ – Pastor Peter Kayode Opens Up

Pastor Peter Kayode Falarungbon is the Head Pastor of Awakeners Chapel International. He was the first Head Pastor of the Ghana branch of T.B. Joshua’s Church, Synagogue Church of All Nations.

tbjoshua_bookIn the latest edition of the world acclaimed Nigerian Religious magazine-Lifeway, Pastor Kayode reveals how the Head Pastor of the Synagogue Church of All Nations, Prophet T.B. Joshua, virtually sent him into exile in Ghana in order to have canal knowledge of his (Pastor Kayode’s) wife, Lola.

This is his story:

It was in 1991 that my wife, Lola, and I went to the Synagogue. We went there because we had been married for nine years without any child. When we met Joshua he looked like a gentleman, a kind person and someone that could be relied on. I saw him as someone representing God because of his physical and outward appearance. Within two weeks of our going there, he had gotten very close to my wife. That got me concerned but then I concluded that it could be because my wife hailed from the village next to his in Ondo State, Nigeria.

One day my former wife told me that the Prophet wanted her to work with him; that she had to do this before God could answer our prayer for a child. Since I did not want to be an obstacle, I gave her the go ahead. Suddenly I found myself going there every day because we wanted the fruit of the womb. One day, Lola told me the Prophet wanted to see me. T.B. Joshua told me God wanted to use me and that I should surrender myself to the service of the lord. It was a big battle in my heart and with my family but finally I succumbed.

The first thing he did was to relocate me from where I lived in a three bedroom apartment at Ipaja road. He gave me a Chamber and hall at Ikoutun Egbe. He told me that if I wanted to serve the Lord, I have to separate myself from the world, from my family and my friends. That was the beginning of my journey. I abandoned my parents and refused to see any of my siblings. I was placed in the evangelical department to study the scriptures. However, because of my Salvation Army background, I found loopholes in some of the things he taught us but I could not openly challenge him.

He later asked my wife to move into the church permanently, while I continue to stay in the chamber and hall. I would leave the house in the morning, go straight to the church and return home in the evening alone. On Sunday mornings, she would rush in early in the morning around 6am, take a change of clothing and rush back to the church. Anytime I showed my desire for intimacy, she will refuse on the grounds that the Prophet said we should not engage in sex yet.

After going through the Bible Training course for about three to four years, most of my colleagues left. I was one of two or three people who remained from my set. After a while, a Ghanaian named Ben and I came to Ghana in 1997 to plan a crusade, We contacted the Ghana Pentecostal Council and we marketed Joshua very well to them even though many of them did not know him. We returned to Nigeria and about months later. I was sent back to Ghana to start a fellowship. We began to grow from there. Up till this time, my former wife remained in Lagos; we could not talk on the phone and I could not talk to my family as well. Once in a while, maybe once in six months or once in a year, Joshua would call me and put my wife on the line. Our conversation usually went like this: “How are you?” “I am fine.” “Well I just want to find out if you are okay.” That was all. Meanwhile, the real reason why we went to Synagogue was yet to be resolved – that was our childlessness.

At some point during the years, I began to awaken from my spiritual slumber. I took a series of decisions. One of them was I must see my parents. Early one morning, while in Lagos on his orders, I left Ikotun Egbe at 5.am.for Agege and traced my parents. They received me coldly. I was not in the least surprised. But then my mum later disclosed to me that my wife had told one of my old friends that Joshua told her it was impossible for her to conceive through me, that the lack of conception was my fault.

An incident I witnessed convinced me there was something between Joshua and my wife. Joshua used to flog his followers, old and young. I was privy to him trying to flog my wife once, but she just walked out on him without anything happening. For her to have the guts to walk out on him when he was flogging others convinced me there was more to their relationship.

The allegation of my wife with the connivance of T.B Joshua that I could not father a child continued to bother me. I battled with temptation. I came to a decision that I needed to remarry in order to prevent falling for temptation and also to prove to Joshua, Lola and everyone who believed the lie that they were wrong. In Ghana, I met a lady here and I told her everything about my situation. And she agreed to my proposal. To the glory of God she got pregnant. I jubilantly announced to my parents, “I told you there was nothing wrong with me!

Five days before my father passed on, he insisted on speaking with me. But because none of siblings had my telephone number they could not reach me. Eventually, my father persuaded my siblings to take him to The Synagogue to meet with Joshua. He was sure that through Joshua a call would be placed to me.

Unfortunately, when they got to The Synagogue they were left at the gate unattended to for two hours. They sent for my former wife and briefed her. She went inside to return two hours later to tell them that the Prophet was not available to see them. They had to return home. The next day, my father passed on. That was why my siblings shunned me. Right there I made up my mind to leave The Synagogue. I told myself it was time to leave!

45 Comments

  • The above reasons are not enough for ur claims. God is a spirit,he that serve Him must serve Him in spirit and truth. If u believe in the miracle of God through the man why can’t u also believe in his prophesy. Sometimes,miracle goes with concrete prophesy. Otherwise,Don’t bury ur faith only on one thing, if u try one thing and it doesn’t work for u,go for another. Remember bro, the scripture said: for no reason should a man throw away his wife unless for fornication/adultery. God is perfect,He makes way where there is seems to be no way. Another thing is the state of ur mind,that’s wat u hold on to as object of ur believe over the matter. Believe in God n also in urself everything will work well wit u. Prayerfully reconcile wit the woman(wife) and the whole condition,and get together again u will see favour of the Lord. The subject of” ask and it shall be given unto u,knock and the door will open unto u (as God commanded)is in no small measure concerns our life.

  • chai! Why is it that christian piple are so daft! See wayo in broad daylight. No wonder kemi omololu olunloyo calls him pastor tuberclosis. Tufia!

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  • I don’t no why people still dey worship all dis evil pastors here and dea,a church dat sell holy water 4 5000naira per sachet,my brethren still don’t desist from all dis evil churches.wolves among sheeps,its only in nigeria dat people worship pastors as if dea jesus christ,love jesus wit ur whole heart and forget taking ur problem tu pastors,deas no problem in life dat past white fasting with fervent prayer tu jesus christ,dat my fada will not answer,read ur bible very well and u will understand wat jesus christ says corcerning end time.

    • My brother Tunde, I think the problem is with people not reading their Bible and asking the Holy Spirit to help them understand a book that is written in plain English. They only want to hear what a man of God says without double checking. “Freely you received, freely give” – Matt. 10:8, yet people will be buying so-called unholy or holy water from T.B. Joshua. I have some of my relations entangled in this, and you cant convince them otherwise.

  • The Bible says we shall knw the truth and it shall set us free,I dnt blame u cos u were in need of smtin and u blved the man of God could pray for u dt u get it,dts how it should be,but since inceptn i knw in my spirit that that man isnt sent frm God,any1 can say anytin,Congrats on deliverance,so sorry abt ur wife,sorry,former wife

  • Well Ur Explanation Is nt Enough Proved for you to Judge.But Since dats what u consumed in ur Heart..I Pray is True or Else u will Ve a Reward but if nt d Prophet will ve His reward..God reward all according to Our Work.

  • cock and bull story! 1st , he seperated u from ur wife and u never reacted. 2nd, when u reconciled with ur people and they told u about ur wife latest, u didn’t confront her or the prophet and u left after the reconcilliatn without dropping ur contact to them and collectn their own contact. pls find another story!

  • God of heaven nd earth will forgive does of u who speak evil of the prophet, al I knw is dat judgement is of God nd nt human. As for me I believe in him, his ministry nd al dat come in contact of him God help us

  • Ur story is not true. First, I worked at the synagogue and I have never seen the man of God flogging anybody.
    Second, TBJoshua will never anyone is barren. I know this bcos Iived with him for over a year. He’s very open and honestly the sweetest person I have met.
    I pray God forgives u for saying this about the man that puts smiles on peoples faces.
    We jst out of ignorance brings cursed upon ourselves.

  • First u call urself a pastor and u come out to critisize a real prophet of god. Ur a big fool. Who be u and ur dirty wife. U no dey see en own wife hw beautiful she is. Bastard u’ll roth in hell. Inshort am coming to ur church on sunday and I’ll definitly shoot u and send u to hell myself. Pastor my ass

    • God is telling me right now to tell you to be BORN AGAIN, accept Jesus Christ as your personal Lord and Saviour, invite the Holy Spirit into your life and turn from your old ways. Please, going to church and loving and supporting and being close to a-man-of-God does not make you Born Again or take you to Heaven. PLEASE DO THIS QUICKLY.

  • Nawaa for jobless Nigerians,chai!that’s why the political,economic and social life of our dear country can never be better. can you imagine this impostor would have one way or the other stayed @ synagogue pretending to be christian. and all that is in him is christian-political acrimony and rancor. May God save us

  • May God Have Mercy On You.. All Your Story Are Fake.. It Would Be Better For You Not To Judge The Prophet..! Its Better You Ask Of God Mercy.!

  • what kind of story is this dear pastor, pls stop this message of dis- honour you are tryiing to spread, what can you axchieve by this? nothing ok

  • When you didn’t established your so-called church, the fake news about the Man of God T.B.Joshua intimacy with your wife didn’t come up. He has trained you finish, out of selfish intent, you decided to open your church, the only way to criticize him and gain more popularity is to say all this lies to him. You have bite the hands that fed you. Can a God fearing Man so claimed Pastor talks about Marketing a man of God? So, church according to your reasoning, is a business opportunity now. Well, am not in support of some certain things in that church but that doesn’t give me any right to judge anybody. So as for those who blackmail the Man of God, you better mind your own business and allow God to do his work.

  • You will never smell his kind of blessing and annointing fool. Who do you think can buy you dirty story, it is better you go back to Daddy Prophet TB Joshua like a prodigal son and beg for forgiveness, thereafter complete your training and receive blessing n oil on your head from him before you think of opening a ministry. If not you don kpai like your fake story.

  • We’ve to be wary of our responses to write-ups. Don’t be judge mental&sentimental too. Let’s us be logical&rational critics.
    Left for me,the only person to refute this malicious allegation is the prophet himself. Or his PA.

  • First of all I dont think if you actually attended any bible school as you claimed because you dont know the scripture. If you do,am sorry for you because vengeance is of the Lord because the sin He does not forgive is that against the Holy spirit. Touch not my anointed and do my prophet no harm says the Lord. You are doomed for ever you spirit of devourer.

  • IF ANY ONE IS THINKING RIGHT HE WILL PERCEIVE FROM THE SEQUENCE OF THIS MAN’S STORY THE EVIDENT INCOHERENCE…………I HAVE NO DOUBT THAT U ARE LYING. UR STORY IS NOT TRUE. MARK MY WORD IF TB JOSHUA IS A TRUE MAN OF GOD U WILL GO DOWN LIKE OTHERS WHO HAVE BEEN TRYING TO BRING HIM DOWN. BEGIN TO ASK 4 GOD’S MERCY

  • Judge not so you wouldn’t be judged on the last day, the bible also say dat touch not my anointed and do my prophet no harm, T.B joshua should be left with God

  • All he said is truth go to Scoan all d ladies working with t.b j are over due for marriage when will they get married? Very soon God will expose more about him.

  • This story is as fake as the person who said it. What’s all this? How would one just wake up one beautiful morning and make up such a fake and stupid story? This world is turning into something else. God have mercy upon the narrator of this story.

  • Well, this is not a strang thing, floging is the miracle of our days pastors, keep on and flog well well bcs they dont know where to go

  • Fake story #Haters jealous pastor that’s what you are..ask God to forgive you cus I believe you while paid for this blackmail. Even Jesus it was pipo like u whom pesecute Him…#fact

  • The bible says, in 2timothy 2vs15 “Study to show thy self approved unto God, a workman that needeth not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth”. In Ephesians 4vs14 the bible say “That we henceforth be no more children,
    tossed to and fro, and carried about with
    every wind of doctrine, by the sleight of men,
    and cunning craftiness, whereby they lie in
    wait to deceive”. We Christians should ask for understanding from to study GOD’s word(the bible) to know the truth so that when a man of GOD, no matter how highly placed, is going contrary to the word of GOD and anybody that does things that are contrary to the word of GOD is not of GOD….

    • God bless you & your efficient brain.
      There are not many of your kind remaining in Nigeria. I’m honestly happy for you.

  • the truth is very bitter.thank god that finally someone can come up to say what these crooked and randy and antichrist these pastors are.ur wife has commited adultry if u can see clearly.so u can proceed with ur lattest, fruiful darln. Leave dat sinagwogwo .the true god wil never allow ur wife to part with u even for once.sorry u passed thru all these bcos u feel that god is now a pastor.some stil hv being blind folded u even realise ur own in time.

  • how can one(so called) man of god ask me to open my private part so dat they can put olive oil inside.for my deliverance.plz is that what christ thought.

  • Shame to you,because you misbahave using the name pastor, you want to cover up with this fake story.infact you need deliverance at SCOAN.remove that pastor from your name with immediate effect.Go and carryout DNA,that child is not yours

  • Tb joshua is a false prophet,if u believe in him I’m sorry for you. 1st ask yourself is it normal to sell gods anointing for #5000,is it normal to give special anointing to some people rather than everybody. This is what goes on at synagogue nobody gist me I went there and saw for myself. May God open peoples eyes

  • Prophet T.B Joshua is a servant of God been send to pass the message of our Lord JESUS CHRIST. Why Should we Judge Him, it is only GOD that has the
    final Judgment not we. Prophet T.B Joshua is my Father in the Lord. I Love him so much

  • I don’t believed you cos my mentor prophet TB Joshua is a man of GOD ,who portrays a good example for the whole world

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