My Boyfriend Tied Me To The Door And Flogged Me With A Wire

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I’m a 19 year woman that has been in a relationship for 8 months with my boo, who is 34 years old.

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Every time my boo and I have a heated argument, I usually slap him and then he would apologize to me, we’ll then have make up sex. It’s really the best time to have sex, make sense things. But 2 days ago he and I had our regular fights at his friends party because he was trying to collect one stupid girl’s number. So while we were arguing, I slapped him in front of his friends and this guy didn’t do anything till we got home.

As I’m writing to you now, I’m at a local hospital close to my parents house because this bastard boy tied me to his kitchen door and flogged me with wire, because of a slap that used to make us have the best sex.

Anyways he has been begging since yesterday. Should I forgive him or just forget him. Heard once a beater always and forever a beater. Advice me please because my parents have never flogged me with wire before.

 

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54 COMMENTS

  1. I think you are stupid to write this. Its a shame on your part to say you are 19 he is 34. Its a bad habit to be slaping your boyfriend. You better think well while you check your future, if you don’t want to be a prostitute for ever!

  2. Stupid girl,very insultive.i dnt think she has a future,dating sumone of dat age and slapin a man instead of u 2 work harder on ur studies.

  3. You’re still alive!!!! Your boyfriend flogs like a gal……19-34, that’s bout 15 right???no wonder Your boy/manfriend beat u like a pupil!!! Dumb gal

  4. You are very stupit for your action by slaping your man in front of his friends the man did the right thing left for you to think verywell

  5. U r the most stupid girl on earth u lack manners lack home training u don’t hv respect for ur elders that is hw ur mother slap ur father dirty pig n u come here to explain to ur mate to give advice on wat to do. My advice to u is to go n let ur useless mother train u very well animal

  6. Dear girl, slapping some1 dat is 15yrs older u, is like slappin ur own fada. ur man is even d gentle type 4 not floggin u in front of his friends. If u don’t want him 2 ever beat u up again, get some manners n stop slapping him.

  7. You re lucky he didn’t kill u.hw can u slap ur boyfrnd @all.nt jst dat in d public. Ur too young to be in such a relatnshp. 19 yrs-u shld either be thinkin of goin into skul or in skul facin ur studies. Ur already towing d line of a hore. Having sex @ur age its bad. God loves u more dan dat. He has a better life for U. What ever d case. Again dat guy won’t marry U. So jst leave him n focus on ur life. A boy is nt wat u need nw.He is devaluing ur life wit sex n u think ur enjoying?No. U ll regret if u continue….cos u ll loose out. Pls if u need counselling, call 08063377648.

  8. Please, when someone asks for advice its because they need someone else’s opinion not to be insulted. Quite all right, some of these stuffz are really silly but that those not warrant this dirty languages. If ƔΰЯ to angry to give a pure comment, then don’t say anyting. Why should you

  9. Please, when someone asks for advice its because they need someone else’s opinion not to be insulted. Quite all right, some of these stuffz are really silly but that those not warrant this dirty languages. If ƔΰЯ to angry to give a pure comment, then don’t say anyting. Why should you

  10. Listen young lady, u Dnt need any advice because u know what u re doing and how u re behaving too. You are feeling proud, feeling on top of arrelationship and being bossy, these u do with your clear eyes and u know it. So simple for u, u knew u were being arrogant in all. In that case, u lack good manners of home bringing not just of relationship. U could have thought abt it that if the guy were to be slapping you the way u did to him, how would u feel or would u take it for granted? So u see u have wrong attitude in your doings for thinking about what someone did to u and not thinking about what u were doing to other person. Again, this is a relationship affair, u need not come to the open, writing this and seeking for advice or comment, it therefore means u Dnt know what u are doing and u Dnt know what u want, therefore u too young to be into this

  11. Sandra Edwin, I personally dislike your comment. Insulting this girl’s innocent mother is totaly wrong.You lack manners, and your talking as if you have not sin before. But let me tell you this for you to bear it in mind,you and that girl are the same.

  12. =))•´¨) 
    ¸.•´ ¸.ℓoℓ •*¨) ¸.•*¨)
    ​=)) ¸¸.•´=D(¸.•´(¸.• =))….so u re still awake to write dis? He shuld have beaten u to coma. U do not need to slap a man in his age. And y are u feeling fly he’s begging u back? One straight answer to dat is cus he misses having s*x with u! =))•´¨) 
    ¸.•´ ¸.ℓoℓ •*¨) ¸.•*¨)
    ​=)) ¸¸.•´=D(¸.•´(¸.• =)). Make up s*x *mcheeeeeew! Just get a life fø̲̣̣я̅ urself

  13. Hello there,I know people have said a lot,my dear age is just a number and has nothing to do with love. The truth is you never should have being into the slapping thing for a make up sex, now see where it has landed you. Its best you leave that relationship,cos more of that will still come if u are still in that relationship. If you need help call or sms 07030199683

  14. Young lady, all you need presently is total deliverance. I advice you to visit SCOAN, at Ikotu Egbe for your deliverance. There are evil spirits or deamon disturbing you. You should first repent of ur sins and tell God to forgive you.

  15. My dear,what you did was totally wrong!why will you slap a man who can be the age of your father in the first place!I have a solution for you…you need Jesus in ur life ok..

  16. Girl, a man should never ever lay a hand on a woman. Period. Get out of that relationship. Now. And don’t look back.

    To the rest of the commenters here : you all ought to be ashamed of yourselves. Your misogyny is evil. Nigeria is seen as a backward place because of you. Dump your backward religions. Barbarians do not have a place in the family of man.

  17. I will not blame you girl as much as the guy. He made the slap an hobby for you and both of you did not see anything wrong with it at the first place even the second place too. But he did not apologize because you where wrong.
    Now both of you are wrong. Pls forgive him because you too need mercy too. Both of you should apologize to each other.
    Since you are not married to each other if I am not wrong pls there is no need for sex.
    Always ask for God’s guidance in what ever you do.

  18. i pity u young girl. u lack morals. @19, u can boldly discuss such a thing instead of u to be facing ur studies or look for a trade and learn, u are here talking about reconciliation sex. May God have Mercy on u!

  19. Because your parents have not flogged you with wire, that is why u always slap a man, are u mad? what give u gorse to rise your pam on a man’s face, which kind love be that? No go slap him again, mumu!

  20. I wount crucify Ÿ̲̣̣̣̥ø̲̣̣̥u̶̲̥̅̊ like others did cos Ÿ̲̣̣̣̥ø̲̣̣̥u̶̲̥̅̊ only want an advice.
    Ÿ̲̣̣̣̥ø̲̣̣̥u̶̲̥̅̊ ought nt to slap him in hs friends presence, all Ÿ̲̣̣̣̥ø̲̣̣̥u̶̲̥̅̊ nid to do is to calm Ɣ☺U̶̲̥̅̊я temper nd wait till both of Ÿ̲̣̣̣̥ø̲̣̣̥u̶̲̥̅̊ get home den Ÿ̲̣̣̣̥ø̲̣̣̥u̶̲̥̅̊ trash tinzz out.
    Remember,’ neva wash Ÿ̲̣̣̣̥ø̲̣̣̥u̶̲̥̅̊ dirty linens outside’
    Dear, its one of those thinz dt happens in mst relationship, jst work on Ɣ☺U̶̲̥̅̊я temprement and Ÿ̲̣̣̣̥ø̲̣̣̥u̶̲̥̅̊ ll b fine.
    Make up sex after a fight isn’t d best. Note dt

  21. Like some people have said. You are very lucky for the kind of person you get as your boyfriend. I can’t even accept the the first, time talk less of multiple or in the public in an occasion. Look at your self very well you lack moral, and have reduced yourself before your friends and his friends. It’s only a blind man like your boyfriend who will befriend you or talk of marrying you. Because slapping has become part of your life. And you will pleasurably disgrace your husband like that. I see your boyfriend as mumu what is he apologizing for, a dirty slap before you offer him a fucking hole him too needs some deliverance in your hand before you kill him. Slaps at home and in the public what have not done and you are talking asking the public if will forgive him. What you need to do is to look for his best friend who will assist you to go and plead for his forgiveness for the embarrassment you embarrassed in the public.
    lastly don’t proud you are living in sin. Go back to your God for forgiveness.

  22. That really a bad abit 4 both of u 2 fighting b4 u both av sex,u had better 4giv him{infact beg him}becouse u are d one dat corses d bone of contention between both of u•

  23. Pls quit dat relationship n focus on ur studies, cuming out in public and broad casting dis kind of tin mean u are spoilt to d hight level and ur parent most know u date dat kind of man, for me both u and ur parent needs total deliverance…children of now a days dopn spoil finish

  24. For sure you know it’s wrong to raise ur hand and slap ur man, so do what is right….apologize to him since he is also sorry for his did….enjoy.

  25. Hahahaha! This is funny! You dare to slap ur papa? Some ajebo girls of these days lack manners. His reaction of flogging u is an unleash of the suppressed anger he has been feeling over u constantly slapping him. He is not a beater. He is probably the most gentle guy u would ever meet. You pushed him to the wall.

  26. Young girl this is an evidence that you don’t have respect, you open your useless mouth to say that you slapped a 34 yrs old man in public at age of 19, that shows that you will also slap your husband at any time you have misunderstanding infact it means that you are a way ward girl instead of you to concentrate on your education and plan for your future, you only think about men and sex sorry for you. Are you sure you respect your parent at all? Repent now and accept JESUS CHRIST as your personal LORD and SAVIOUR before it is late. JESUS LOVE’s U

  27. That age diff is too much ooo…. Just let him go bcos u will nevr stop slapping and tieing each other… thats d begining… if u continue, u will still slap him and this time he might tie u to an electric pole nd flog u mercilessly.

  28. U need to get home training, manners and respect, how can u slap ur man in d presence of his friend? Even if he doesn’t wanna beat u, his friends will advice him to do, learn to be patient and calm

  29. U guys r jst insulting the poor girl. Pls she needs advice nt insults. U hv nt looked at it from her own angle. Yes she is wrong for slapping him, bt did u read her reason for doing dat. I’m nt justifying wat she did, bt don’t make her misery. My dear, if u ask me I’ll tell u dat, dat relationship is unhealthy for u. U r too young for all dat beating and battering. Pls I advice dat u take a u-turn in ur life, think about the things dat matter d most in ur life right now! That is nt wat God has planned for u. Pls get well soon and go back to ur father’s house. God bless

  30. Gudday am gudnuz. Sory my emial an pasword ar nt opeing my facbok i culd ve given it 2u. Bt den ve read ur comment am so-sory 4passing thru al dat bt den cum 2tink of it, did u kn it’s an aboumination 4a lady 2slap aguy if sum1 did nt let u kn i wil let kn anyway wat has hapen as hpen wat u ned 2do is 2give hm if he has apologies 2u bt he ned nt 2apologies reather u ar d1 dat shul do dat. I dn’t kn if my avice ar wel acpted

  31. U stil dey alive haa u try ooo,if I were d one and u do dat to me I swear I wil kill u,well jst pray to God to forgive u bcuz is nt gud to slap ur usband.kip on begging he can forgv u.bt if am d one I wil never forgv u bcuz u disgrace me in public.

  32. U are a dissgrace to womanhooh, the guy should be the one to ask if he will still go out with u, besid he will never get marry to u, hw will u slap ur guy, if he isur elder brother will u try that. If the still beging u, it he is a nonentity.

  33. my dear, why should u

    slap ur bf or mf i public? Does it mean two of you cannot have good sex without fighting first. Are ur parents aware of this relationship? Are u not to young to be doing what you are doing? Is he not too old for you? Do you go to church ? Dont you have hobbies or a passion for something creative. I am sure by the time u finish answering some of these questions you will advice yourself.

  34. he will not add any value to your life than the sex he gives you or you give him. you will be the looser and he will move on to look for another girl to marry and pray he dont impregnate you. dont publish this kind of issue again to expose you immaturity

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