My Fiance Of 5 Years Is Not Ready For Marriage

I have dated my fiance for 5years now. Whenever I ask him about our marriage plans, he keeps telling me he doesn’t have enough money for the wedding.

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This guy earns 170k monthly while I earn 100k. I told him I have some cash I made from a supply, can’t we use it for the wedding? He said its okay by him.

His mother called me from Benin last week and said the son told him about our marriage arrangement, that she has mapped out the wedding expenses.

To my greatest surprise she gave me an amount I can’t really explain. I have 3milion on me while she said everything will cost 4million both for the traditional and white wedding.

My wedding gown is not included, his suit is not included. Should I forget this man and move on with my life or release all the money I have for the wedding? I am troubled at the moment. I am so confused. Please advise.

What advice would you give this lady?

32 Comments

  • Dis is serious oooo! If d guy really love u and went to marry u!he shd be d 1 to lead d responsibility of d married while u follow! girl be smart oooo

  • Run for your dear life oh before had I know!cos he won’t value you at all. Remember dat a broken friendship is better dan a broken marriage! Gudluck!

  • Haba! How can u allow urself 2 be fooled like dis? He earns about 200k monthly n still complains he doesnt av money 2 marry u? My sis hubby who earns less dan 40k was able to do a wonderful wedding, both traditional n church without a penny from her n many pple dt I know of, bt wit d money he earns he still complains dis much? U are being played. Wat kind of wedding will cost 4m? U sound educated but u aren’t smart nor wise, u’ve got to wise up girl! Dt guy has seen u all? Look dat guy in d eyes n tell him 2 go 2 hell. The very month u do dat, someone better, who deserves u n worth ur luv will come. Keep ur money n be consoled by it when u dump his sorry ass.

  • Dat guy and his mom are 419,the should be d leading person for d wedding why u are to support if u can, live d guy before they dup u and don’t be desperate for marriage,GOD will proved ur husband for u.

  • Bone dat guy abeg… come jare let me take u 2 mama. 300k don finish our weeding… we nogo invite people 4rm heaven after all

  • Dat guy and his mum are 419,the guy should be d leading person for d wedding why u are to support if u can, leave d guy before they dup u and don’t be desperate for marriage,GOD will proved ur husband for u.

  • Dat guy and his mum are 419,the guy should be d leading person for d wedding why u are to support if u can, leave d guy before they dup
    ed u and don’t be desperate for marriage,GOD will proved ur husband for u.

  • Dat guy and his mum are 419,the guy should be d leading person for d wedding why u are to support if u can, leave d guy before they dup
    ed u and don’t be desperate for marriage,GOD will proved ur husband for u.don’t just wast your 3millon like dat.

  • Dis’s toooo bad.u beta run b4 it’s late,He’s passing a msg 2 u dat he’s r8dy 4 anytin with u,u might end up being dupe & dump afta. It’s beta 2 ‘ve a broken relaxnship dan broken mariage, mariage is sometin u enjoy not manage it. Be smart girl & ur brain.God is in control

  • Pls dnt do anytn u ll regret out of desperation..if @ all u want u guys wanna get married,its for u assist him ali2 nt doin d whole wedding..nor b woman dey marry man nw…d fam hs sensed desperation n ll only use it against u..my dear,b wise.Run as fast as ur legs cn carry u..u deserve better nt less..

  • That must be an imagination or an expensive joke, but if it’s, Girl u own ur head and ur legs, so, u really don’t need me to tell u what to do

  • Daylight robbery…. You don’t need a prophet to tell u, u r bin fooled!!! No responsible woman wud billed a girl her son wanna marry… 4 million for wat? And u r bin expected to spend all dat u v cox u wanna get Marid? Snap outta it dear… U r in for a shocker… Forget love hia, just use ur head…

  • God will never forgive if he dump u b/c he came to u for marriage not u dat went for he. I knw it is not easy 5year no be moi moi bt just move on with ur life he has someone else our God will see u through

  • Girl the mother has started intruding, and if you don’t leave you will be in trouble in her hands in Future, please run for your life ooo

  • lady dat guy is nt ready for u. He earns 170 n u earn 100, and he said no money, he is a liar. @ least u were to assist him not u footing all d bills.

  • lady dat guy is nt ready for u. He earns 170 n u earn 100, and he said no money, he is a liar. @ least u were to assist him not u footing all d bills. Run baby run.

  • Gal u are jst one of his sex toys to satisfy his cravings 4 sex. From wat u jst told us nw he is not ready 4 marriage cus he does nt see u as his wife. Be sharp gal dis na naija u dey.

  • Ma dear u nid 2 cal him 2 order. Sit him down and ask him if he rili luvs nd want 2 marry u!! If yes he sld proceed wit d marriage plans. U sld asist him nt u takin all responsibily all in the name of marraige.

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  • Cum dat guy is an idiot, marriage is between 2 not 3, the mother is a thief hw wish u can connect me to to guy and his celling mother. Stay away from that guy s no human, believe me u will get a beta man, 4million my foot has his mother count dat kind of money in her life, nonsense.

  • Hello girl., Ў☺ΰ don’t need to call him and sit him down JUST LEAVE HIM bcos he doesn’t want Ў☺ΰ anymore. Pls take ur time and luk for someone better and be prayerful bcos gud men are scarce o…may God grant Ў☺ΰ your heart desires.

  • My dear sister, I am a married man and my salary is 62k and my wife have her own business that gives her 80k per month all these were through my small salary.Let me tell you,love is quite different with money.love have a very big role in marriage because is for better and for worst. Marriage Without Love is like hell fire.I want you to know that no tradition,culture and religion that allowed a woman to pay for her marriage right.That Man should know that there is no fix price for marriage.That man is not ur husband move on with ur life and always be prayerful and also be patient God will give you a good man that will be your husband.Any marriage that is not from God never last and you cannot enjoy it.

  • Babe na u wan marry am abi?. Abeg run 4 ur dear life bcos dat guy and em mama na 419. Don’t rush ur man will surely come, mean while drop that thing before it’s too Late.

  • My candid advice is for you to leave that man because he’s only deceiving you. How are you sure that the woman who called you claiming to be his mom is not his fiance/wife. Please don’t be deceived,leave him and move on with your life.

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