Tchidi Chikere’s Ex-Wife, Sophia Releases Press Statement In Response To His Tweets

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So the story goes on and on.

Nollywood’s Tchidi Chikere and Sophia are at each other over the scandal surrounding their failed marriage and new marriage of the former.

The movie director took to twitter to call out his estranged wife revealing private details about their marriage.

She (Sophia Chikere) sent out a statement in response to tell her own side of the story.

Read her statement below:

Tchidi Chikere, I read all you said about me and I laugh. Is that the best way to justify yourself? It is well. I will not exchange words with you still because there is nothing you say or write about me that will shake me because those that put their trust in God, He never fails them.

Why are you lying to people? For them to turn around and clap for you and justify what you did? Is it because people who know the truth are saying it and it’s hurting you and you are now looking for a way to justify yourself. I give 10 years of my life and this is how you repay me? By disrespecting me and my family?

You said I used juju to marry you. If truly I and my family used juju to hold you, let God who sees everything judge me and you. 

You bring money for the upkeep of your kids and you are writing about it? Like seriously, are they not your kids? Whose responsibility is that? And who is disputing that with you? You said since you married me that I have not given you no love, no affection etc but you forgot the interview you granted to Punch newspaper in 2011 saying that I am the best thing that have happened to you.

You said I never had time for you? When you are always filming in he east and I won’t see you in months. I played the role of father and mother to the kids…and I laughed the more when I saw where you wrote that I didn’t feed you for 5 days.. Is this all in desperation to justify yourself? Wow!!

You said marriages are not contracted on the pages of newspaper and granting interviews yet you people have been granting interviews upon interviews since 2012.. Have I said anything against you? But I won’t say anything against you. Keep saying lies about me thinking you can tarnish my image by putting up this childish and immature behavior.

Even if you say that I am a prostitute tomorrow or a thief, people who know the truth know the truth and God knows everything and sees the heart and he will pay everybody back according to our deeds. So am not shaking!!

I will never say anything against you to gain favour from people! No you can’t hide pregnancy. I gave you my life for 12 years, gave you 3 lovely boys, gave you a home. And you always say to me then, I was a good wife to you and you know it. I was loyal to you and never cheated on you. I swallowed and stomached so many things just to make my marriage work. I turned deaf ears to so many things and covered my eyes to so many things.

I remember all the stories I heard about your escapades with other women, but did I leave you? I stayed with you because marriage is for better or worse and when you started your affair with Nuella in 2010, what did you say to me when I confronted you? 

I stayed, endured and prayed every night. Have you forgotten the day I almost committed suicide? The first time you left me and the kids? I wanted to end my life but God saved me. Even as you left us in 2012, I keep saying to people that my marriage is intact and I never changed my name from Sophia Tchidi Chikere till date. 

Have you not done enough to me? You are married now and still I wish you and your new wife well. Why can’t you leave me alone to face my children and fill up the vacuum this has created in their lives? You say such evil things against their mother and they are hearing it from their schoolmates. Their schoolmates are taking about it and asking them questions everyday and yet your not satisfied. You claim you kept quiet because of them, yet you have been talking and tarnishing my image since 2012? Yet I kept mute. I have not and will never say anything bad against you. Vengeance is of the Lord, unless he is not on the throne.

You put up my pictures with my friend to use against me? You want to use it to justify what you did to me? What you put me through for years? You said he is my boyfriend that I go to see in London and I ask you Tchidi, when I was with you, did I not go to London 2 or 3 times yearly to buy clothes for my boutique? Everybody knows that I am a business woman and I buy my products from London and America. And so because I have a friend in London, I now go there just to see him? Lol He is my friend, my pal, my buddy and my best friend.

We started being good friends in 2013 after Chidi left me and ended our marriage. He is someone that is very close to me and my confidant. All these years I have had women as best friends and they all betrayed me, and I decided to have a guy as my best friend. We go everywhere together and he assists me in shopping and buying things for my shop etc I can’t deny him. He is my friend. People that know me very well will tell you that I love taking pictures and so we took lots of pictures and the guy posted it on his Facebook page and some people copied it and started posting it online. I have also kept mute about it and I would have still keep mute if not that Tchidi raises it and wanted to use it to tarnish my name.

But is well. My kids read what their daddy wrote about me and they asked me to respond and tell the whole world that you are wonderful mother and that they know and they are seeing everything and won’t say anything till they grow up! So am responding to this because of my three lovely boys that I live for, that am blessed with.

I want to beg Tchidi to please allow me to concentrate and train my kids with God’s grace and help. I wish him the best in his new marriage.I bless his new marriage with his new wife and I wish them well. This will be my last statement. Even if Chidi pulls the mountain to paint me black.. I will not respond again.

Thank you

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27 Comments

  • Nuella you disappointed ur fans, must u marry a divorcee for what nah? My dear Sophia pls just take it easy okay and let ur children’s presence strengthens u. may de Lord guide and protect u

    • divorcee? hell no, she started dating the dude since 2010 and i can attest to that because have seen them few times in hotels dating from 2010, so its not a big deal to him and i hate that dude with passion cuz he’s full of himself with him small money

  • The problem is that you guys jump into conclusions easily,what makes you think she’s not the guilty one,she says sweet words just for people to be on her side but I tell you that she’s a delilah….Have u ever imagined why a man would leave such a besutiful woman to get married to someone else?…You guys don’t know her,we do so guys don’t pity her and muna,Tchidi isn’t a fool,ok!

    • @ Aristo, there is wisdom in ur comment. I don’t know chidi in person neither any of the people involved. But a director like Chidi will definitely be an intelligent person who will do everything possible to preserve his beautiful marriage and live with his sons, exception of his wife signing Visa 4 London guys. No intelligent man will ever take that. Men are selfish, yes we are selfish. But one thing, “only one thing” a man will never take from a beautiful woman is “cheat”. Chidi is not a fool. Am not judging anyone. But chidi is not a fool. So I feel.Truth Lie somewhere.

  • I think this should serve as a lesson to other women out there.. Sometimes you don’t know the value of what you have unti you loose it..Most women think that having children (boyz to be precise), for a Man is the most priority in Marriage. The Man becomes a NOBODY,simply bcos u think u are his kids Mama.You don’t care about him anymore, bcos u believe he’s too old to be loved and cared for.U can imagine the senseless statement of this ADULTROUS Woman”Everybody knows that I am a business woman and I buy my products from London and America. And so because I have a friend in London, I now go there just to see him? Lol He is my friend, my pal, my buddy and my best friend.”
    If you like go to Kafanchan and buy your Goods, cares.That shouldn’t give you the courage to keep male friends (sin partners). She even had the gots to mention on her write up.. You are now free to Fuck your numerour Bfrends in America and London, INTERNATIONAL BIZ WOMAN.But try and let one of them Marry u o.One thing is sure, you can never never get a man like Tchidi all your life.
    I just hope other Ladies would learn from your Mistakes. .
    Happy Married Life , Bros Tchidi jo!

    • I agree with u , i dont even want to know more abt her cock nd bull stories , reading her message tells that shes no good wife….International biz women indeen. okpooooo….. women will not always agree when dey see the truth..

    • I agree with u , i dont even want to know more abt her cock nd bull stories , reading her message tells that shes no good wife….International biz women indeed. okpooooo….. women will not always agree when dey see the truth..

  • In a relationship married or unmarried,,,,ther r bound To b problems,,,,but mst times nobody want to come down 4each other and d whole prob ll excalate,,,and scatter but in such situations both parties hv ther own fault and blames,,,y I dnt support Sophia,,,I also blame Chidi 4rushin into another marriage dat fast mst expecially wen he hv 3boys dat r still young,,,if u dnt want n love d wife anymore,,,leav 4ur kids,4God sake d new wife ll take all ur time n attention,,,d only tin u can do is finanCe to d kids and dats not enough Mr TChidi,,,and I read all wat u said online comin frm a man is stupid n childish,,,a mature man won’t justify his actions,,he kips quiet abt it all,,,,if its a lady fine we created dat way Not man,,,,,definitly time ll tell bec its nt rOsy anywere,,,u n ur new wify ll also hv probs,,,will u kip jumpin frm one woman to another…wat is a successfuk marriage,,,,do u tink its a home free of problems,,,,,,,,,No its a home dat generated problems are cope wuit,,,talk abt fight abt an lettin it go,,,,,,,I hope u learn frm it,,,,,,,,

  • I am not suporting anybody, bt wat I ve to say is that d lady maked a veri big mistake by making her biz friend(guy) open to evri one. As a person u shld no dt men are jelouse, since u knw he is only a biz friend and notin more attached to it u shld ve keep it secret nt allowing everi one to know. Despite the fact that ur conciense iw clear, u cann’t say the mind of other people. And look at the kind of sweet name u called him who on earth would nt believe dt he is ur friend. My dear, u gave d devil the key to ur room.

  • TChidi is aristo,unknwn ,akudo nd emeka .cus dey are all sayin rubbish nuella God wil put assunder in ur marriage if dis sophia has done notin to her huby.if nt den hapy married life

  • A man who flirts and finally decides to take another wife must always have negative things to say abt his first wife to justify his actions. How come after all these years Mr Tchidi lived happily with his wife judging from their social lives, their pictures posted when the going was good.I could remember his interview when he praised his wife as the best she was not a prostitute just when Nuella who with all her beauty couldn’t find a single and young man of her own decided to put asunder what God has joined together all of a sudden,decided to play a second fiddle, the wife is now a Dracula..I am surprised for the sake of money families have lost integrity and values. When we are smaller, they told us not to steal pencils, books biros etc and yet they embrace us when brought other people’S husbands. as long as they are reach no problem .if the man is a truck pusher will they accept him? Any man who marries a second wife will still go for the third one or a mistress. What u wish to others will come back to. Your children will be left in the cold. Beauty fades with time, but the truth will always remain. This is just the truth.

  • a womanizer dat is wat u are,and u can neva satisfied with one wife,since u want to taste anoda woman go ahed n stop justifyn ursef cos a gud man as u claim does not marry two wives,so nomatter wat u say ur not a decent man and u must reap wat u sow,gush. says:

    chidi is a womaniser ,simple and d husband snatcher a prostitute dat jump frm one of d south south governor to u,u people are disgrace to nollywood so stop justifyin una self,

  • My dear peaople,pls help me tell tchidi dat d worst tin he did in his life,was to marry nuela bcos she was my corse mate in imsu and she was married wen we were in 2nd year,but d marriage did not last up to a year,bcos she was cheating on her husbnd.she is too secreative. D devil u know is beta dan d angel u don’t know.investigate wat I just said now nd know if am lieing or not

  • NUELLA!! OMG U DISAPPOINTED ME,FYN GIRL LIKE U,Y DO U DISAPPOINT UR FANS LIKE DIS? WHO DOES NT KW CHIDI DAT WILL SOON DUMP U AS HE DID TO HIS WIFE.GOD SHOULD HAVE MERCY FOR DIS OUR GIRLS OOOO!

  • Sophia,don’t mind Tchidi Chikere.he’s not a real Igbo man at all.God will help u to bring up ur children. Jst forget Tchidi Chikere,I don’t knw wat Nuella is going to give to him.He’s a fool.Jst move on with ur life, God is ur strength.Ur children will take care of u in future.

  • OMG! What a touching post! I soo hate dis Tchidi Ekwensukere. God will punish you if all she said were True, Some men are jst wicked. U think d one U re marrying now is an angel? D devil U know is better than an angel U dn’t knw O. I heard dat Nuella is a champion when it comes to lies.

  • Nuella my God must shally pay u bk in ur own coin. On no account must u have an affair with a married man talk more of marrying him. I give u 1yr dat marriage must shally colaps.

  • Sophia dear, one advice for you no matter what, never say anything on the social media. Just focus on God because He is the only one who can see you through in this situation you’re into. Never cheat, keep yourself ,God will surprise you and your kids. Tchidi it’s better for you to Reconcile with your wife and leave what people will say, it is not too late for you because you have not done your white wedding. You can not dissolve White wedding but you can dissolve traditional wedding. Tchidi what you are doing now with Neulla is Adultery and God hate it so much. If you like you take my advice.

    Thanks!

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