I Caught My Boyfriend Sleeping With My Mum’s Friend, Help!

This is the saddest experience I’ve ever had with my dating experience as an adult. I’m already considering if I should tell this guy that we have dated enough for two years and he should start marriage plans since he has not deemed it fit to propose to me despite the fact that he has seen everything on my body.


But what did I get? The shock of my life. He has been sleeping with my mum’s good friend behind my back and I never suspected anything because this woman is kind of very friendly with him and I was happy because I don’t want any one who is close to my mum to dislike my further husband. I just don’t like too much drama!

Olu Famous, it’s my friend that said I should send a mail to you, because she can’t tell me what to do so no one would blame her tomorrow. I went to Lagos mainland to see her and decided to branch my mum’s friend house to greet her. As I entered her sitting room, what did I see? This woman on top my boyfriend…

She even shouted at me that why didn’t I knock before coming in as if she doesn’t know that the man she had under her was not my boyfriend. She didn’t even say anything about my relationship with my boyfriend but asked me to leave her house and make sure I don’t enter people’s house next time without knocking.

I don’t even know how I managed to leave there, my guy could not say anything and since he didn’t follow me out of her house am sure he continued doing what he was doing with her. But when he called me later I didn’t pick and he has been sending me messages saying the woman tempted him with money.

Should I forgive this guy? How long will it take me to date another guy and settle down? I’m just confused!


  1. His love of money is greater than his love for you even then. Wickedness stems from his heart. Forgive his iniquity and move on. You deserve so much better and wow I’m just flabbergasted that’s so awful :(. God doesn’t want you in that obviously.

  2. Hello,
    Pls, dump dt sorry boyfriend of urs cos he does not respect u and will continue to cheat on u. U definitely will meet someone else.

  3. Pathetic! Be that as it may sound, I will frankly give u my candid advise. Don’t call it quit, he just told you why he did wht he did-the woman … money. Hmmmm women/money. My sister pray for your man be careful with misleading advise, just sit down and think about his character before nw, is it that he’s be so bad if not believe that this evil seduced him with money as he alleged.

  4. Ask your mum’s friend if he has slept with your mum because I read this as part 1 waiting for the part 2,it might even reach part 7.

  5. God has shown you the type of man you want to surrender yourself to.
    Your visiting or going to the house was not by mistake but

  6. Pls gul pray 2 God 2 give u ur right man because this guy those not care about ur feelings.ok come 2 think of it if he slept with someone because of mani that means he has longer throat. A guy dat has sense wl hustle 4 d mani.Even though he wants 2 cheat on u it shuldnt be smone close 2 u.it beta u marry someone dat has respect 4 u dan smone dat take u 4 granted.ur right guy must come just make urself lovable.


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