[OPINION] Open Letter To General Muhammadu Buhari By Chika Onuora

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Since I heard that the All Progressives Congress (APC) voted you in as its presidential candidate, I have been worried about so many issues, some of which I will mention, but others I will raise at other fora.

To start with, as a woman, I am pained that you will not have an office of the First Lady. Many have said that the constitution does not have a provision for that office, which I believe is true, but I still insist that you bring your wife to Abuja, and into the Aso Rock Villa, to help better our lives. She can only do that with the full paraphernalia of an office, so I advise that you reconsider your position.

Again, Sir, it is not about that office, but about the dividends. Most of us do not like Patience, but we like what she has gotten for us. I am not so stupid and irreligious to believe we will equal the men, but at least we can consolidate on the 35% we now have. With you, the future is grim and foreboding.

Dear General, Sir, I may be sounding disrespectful at this stage in my letter, but it is for a good reason because as a woman who has nurtured children with a supporting husband, I cannot understand why a man who served in the Nigerian Army and rose to your rank can be described as an officer and a gentleman. An officer maybe, but a gentleman definitely not. And I thought one of the reasons given for wives decorating their husbands on promotion was to show they were a rank higher. It appears to me that for some of you, while you are officers, your wives are fresh recruits.

Pardon my anger, but I must keep speaking until I ventilate why I can never, ever, vote for you, even if my husband thinks you are what Nigeria needs. He is still suffering certain deprivations for suggesting that in a discussion with his friends to my hearing.

I read the other day that you claimed to have forgiven those who sent you out of Dodan Barracks, but I think all that is politics. If you could not forgive a divorced and dead wife, only fools, including your newfound friends, especially those of the South-West who propped you up, will believe you. That is if they are that foolish! I can wager that Ibrahim Babangida did not believe a word of that your comment. Knowing him as I do, he will work his best underground against you. So will his boys.

Sir, where exactly is your second wife, Aisha? There are too many stories in the open concerning her; and her continual absence either proves the stories have a semblance of truth, or you are just the good, old Buhari that cannot change.

I do not wish to comment on President Goodluck Jonathan or his wife, Patience, but I fear gravely that with you in the Aso Villa, our gender will lose all the gains that Jonathan’s presidency gave us.

Dear General, I read something written by a woman on the back page of the Punch newspapers of Thursday, January 8, 2015 concerning your “missing wife”, but this was the most instructive for me. The writer wrote: “There are several reasons one can adduce for Buhari and his wife’s photo hide-and-seek. One, the culture of lovey-dovey is simply not him. Like the Igbo proverb that says a man cannot learn to be left-handed in old age, I wager that this is a left-handedness that Buhari has not learnt and is probably a far harder lesson than removing his cap during a church service.

“Two, he probably thinks being seen with a woman will detract from his famed militarist discipline and Spartan image. He has done a lot of bending just to project himself as a non-Islamic fundamentalist (and) pan Nigerian statesman but the woman aspect just does not resonate well with him – yet. Third, the religion and culture Buhari has known all his life do gift a second-class citizen status to women.”

Sir, Is this writer right in her summation? If that is the case, we may have to wait until you are 76 years old and recognize how important we are as women to vote you in.

See you in 2019!

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  1. It has been said again and again, there are constituted ministries already dealing with women affairs in Nigeria. If the lady here really cares about women affairs, she should go to Google and enter “women ministries in Nigeria” She would find arrays of ministries dealing with women affairs!These ministries if well organised, are capable of doing what the office of the First Lady is purported to be doing. The office of the First Lady is a waste of public fund.

  2. Chika onuora I tot u r sensible I didn’t knw u r so fooolish n selfish.u beta tink well.if u don’t undeRstnd common english call on me I will teach u idiot. Did buhari said he will not empower women? he said d office of d first lady is not constittutional.

  3. U beta call a spade a spade don’t suppport evil.for him to say he will stop it if he bcomes d president shows dat he has sth to offer dis country more dan GEJ. U called urself good woman ur brodas, sisters are sleeping in d bush bcos of d insurgent. Put dos children in ur shoes if ur been displaced n ur sleeping inside d bush I think u shuldnt b thinking of writing such useless letter of urs.

  4. So when there are world events for first ladies to attend, we would send our minister ba. Even Mandela new better and re-married after divorcing Winnie.. Let’s stop covering up how important the office of the First lady is. The mnistry can never have as much power as the first lady. And whoever mentioned google should go to that same google and find out the importance of a first lady.


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