There is always this guy who jumps into your life and says all the right things. You flirt casually for a while you then exchange numbers and spend an unhealthy amount of time analyzing his Instagram feed.
Well mostly he is too good to be true. Here are the red flags you need to watch out for
1. He talks too much about himself
Nothing is more annoying than a guy who talks about himself and doesn’t make any effort to know you. If enough time goes by and you realize he hasn’t asked you anything personal, odds are, he doesn’t care.
Guys who are truly interested in you personally will try to learn as much as they can about you in order to find common ground.
If he wants more than sex with you, he will, without a doubt, know all of your favorite things and interests.
2. He takes advantage of you
If you are ever scheduling your life around him and making all the effort then something is off.
Going far out of your way each time to see him is great if you actually want to, but he should be equally as psyched to see you, too.
3. He isn’t all there when you hang out
A guy who texts and absently scrolls through apps on his phone the entire time you’re together is definitely not a keeper. You should never feel like you’re competing for his attention during promised one-on-one time.
4. You get the vibe he is been there before
There is a big difference between a meaningful relationship and holding a place as another notch on his belt (“I knew you were trouble when you walked innnnnn…”). Sound familiar?
The “player” type enjoys the chase; he wants you until he has you. If this is the case, then stay one step ahead and move on before you do something you may regret in the morning.
