(Advice Needed): HELP! Family And Money Issues Are in The Way Of Our Marriage!

I’m 32 in love with a Man of 29. We’ve been together for 12yrs, in fact, he saw me through school from menial jobs he was doing before he got a bank job but as a Teller.

The issue on ground is his family, precisely his mother and brothers, and finance. They’ve told him they don’t want me. This Man is a complete definition of “husband material,” his love for me from day 1 till now has not changed; rather, he finds new ways of showing me how much he loves me.

I don’t want to lose him and also do not want to enter a family where the mother-in-law won’t come visiting. A few weeks ago, he said if he had enough money saved, they won’t tell him whom to marry as he won’t need any financial help from them.