First-date s3x has been a controversial topic over the years, with many people still believing in the shameful stigma attached to a lady having s3x with a guy on the first date.
And despite civilization, most people still view s3x on the first date as a make-or-break moment in a relationship, leaving many people to agonize over whether it’s right or not as most people are caught up in the society’s expectation of them., always bothered about what other people think and say about them that they disregard their own desires.
Well, if one of those that have been racking their brain on whether it’s right or wrong to have s3x on the first date, then this article is for you as some Nigerian guys have admitted that s3x on the first date is not a shameful thing after all and that ladies who take this bold step even score points with them, it’s just a matter of two understanding adults getting down together out of mutual understanding and consent.
You’ll keep him coming back for more: “Who says that having sex on the first date will turn away guys? guys love s3x and if you’re confident and enjoy what you’re doing, then they’ll be more inclined to return for seconds; in this scenario, having sex on the first date actually benefits you and increases your chances of a second meeting and remember too that men are pretty basic when it comes to dating and s3x, if they like you, they like you”.
Chemistry is chemistry: “You don’t need to turn s3x on the first date into this momentous decision if you both are into each other, then there’s no good reason not to enjoy each other more”.
They want it: “According to research men regard s3x on the first date as “very appropriate” or “somewhat appropriate”, so don’t be hesitant on the guy’s behalf; chances are he wants it just as badly as you do, and he isn’t condemning the act either”.
You find out if you’re really connected: “S3xual compatibility is an important part of a relationship, by having s3x on the first date, you get to establish that special connection early on and if it’s enjoyable, it’ll only increase your attraction to one another and in this day and age, more people recognize s3x as an important component of a successful relationship, not something to be ashamed of”
Cuts the s3xual tension: “If you don’t have s3x early on, the pressure to have it builds too greatly and each subsequent date becomes a constant mind-game of “Should I keep waiting or should I just do it?” and when s3xual tension builds, you’re likely to become more awkward and over-analytical about why it’s not happening”.
He won’t think less of you: “Women believe men will think less of a woman who has s3x on the first date but the reality is that the majority of guys absolutely don’t, your decision to have s3x is your own; it’s not about him; regardless, guys who are interested in you and want to see you will still follow up and pursue you — especially after they’ve seen you naked”.
Source – ( Greennews)