Newly elected House of Representatives member and owner of indigenous sports betting company(NairaBet), Akin Alabi has urged young men to stop focus on making wealth – rather than looking for women who will share their suffering.
The Nairabet owner said this in a few tweets on Sunday, adding that men should rather focus on ways to get out of their suffering — then can later find a woman to grow with.
He says that although he isn’t asking young men to become rich before they find women but must first get out of suffering.
What he wrote
The focus should not be looking for a woman that will share in your sufferings. The focus should be finding out ways and working towards getting out of the suffering, then find a woman to grow with.
When you get out of suffering and you can afford basic things like food, clothing, and shelter, you can look for a woman to build with. I’m not suggesting you should be Rich first. I’m saying get out of suffering. You don’t even like yourself as you are, don’t add someone else.
The energy on “woman matter” or “husband matter” is too much. That stage when you are still asking your mom for N500 transport fare is not the point when your energy should be on searching for a woman. Search on ways to better yourself first, he added.